Hi there

I haven't posted for a while but need to get this off my chest. My partner has been in denial about his behaviour with alcohol for most of his last although in the last few years its taken a turn for the worst. I've been taking his card for the last month so I could make sure he didn't purchase his beloved vodka which makes me vile and out of control. We have a 5 year old daughter. We've spent the most amazing two weeks on holidays where he drank normally and socially without there being any verbal abuse. Then we come back home and the vodka is purchased again and the pattern starts again. He lost control tonight and verbally abused me in front of our daughter. I try to take her out of these situations as much as I can but it's not always possible and I know she sees something with her dad is not quite right. She sees him turning nasty and just acts like nothing is happening. He refused therapy and will not stop. Is there a future for us?