I finally had enough Thursday evening and had my father in law (who has been my back bone and the mediater) there to witness the fiasco. I already had all my clothes and my sons stuff secretly packed and ready to go. My husband was in the shower and I got everything in my car right before my father in law showed up. It was a big blow out, sadly my son saw it. But finally we worked our way outside. My husband wouldn’t let me leave or take my son. After a while he went in probably to chug a drink. I got my son in his car seat and backed out of the drive way. I came to my safe place with the people who love me and support me no matter what- my parents! 

My husband stayed home from work Friday because he was “so upset” meanwhile he was drinking everything in sight all day. Prior to knowing that I offered him to go get our son from my in-laws ( they watch him while We work) toplay with our son at a park go somewhere fun so they can spend time together. I got no answer and it never happened. 

Last night he called me WASTED. Couldn’t even talk. When all I wanted was him to say goodnight to our son. Then he was threatening to drive and come start a fight with my dad... smash my car...blah the list goes on. But he never showed up. 

We will see if he shows up at our boys soccer game this morning.

Im happy im out of the house. I just have so much more stuff and my kitty I have to get out of that house. I think I’m going to rent a u haul on a day he actually goes to work and get it all out. 

Then a call to a divorce lawyer will be made Monday :)