Oh yes---those days aren't near as often as they were in the first few months but I definitely still have them--it's a surreal thing--like you aren't really there at all---like being asleep dreaming that you are looking down on yourself.

...with scales and maybe horns!!! so yes!

Definitely - in a fog/haze more than I care to admit! (But hoping the fog is "lifting"...just maybe???)

yes, yes, yes.....I feel that often, like I am not in sync with what is going on around me. Here is to better days! :)

Definitely. For about three months I was The Zombie-Wife.
It does get better.

Love,
Carla

Oh yes, there are many of these days. Still haven't figured out my purpose now?? Hopefully day by day there will be less of these.....hugs

Even after over two years I have days where I am just going through the motions. This loss had taken all the wind out of my sails. Where once I thrived now I just survive BUT with the promise that in time it will get better and that happiness and joy will return on a full time basis. It took several years to adjust to being married and the sharing, comprimises and sacrifices made in making it work just right. I doubt that a couple of years in the adjustment to loss is enough time to fully recover. It hurts so deeply, this loss, that we wish it would pass quickly but our love runs deeper. The good days out number the bad and I zombie out less but when I DO zombie!!!!!
Can just say hang in there...Linda

yes still get it sometimes

HI
I lost my husband 6 months ago, and yes i still feel like a Zombie!!
I am hoping for the days, that are not so bad, I do go out shopping and function. but everything feels empty.

Hang in there, but do not be to hard on yourself, i know it is hard but i hope it will get better for us

Um, yesterday!!!!
Went through the motions of the day feeling completely like a zombie and not really being in the present...kind of not able to focus on much of anything.
Today was much better but I think that had to do with the beautiful weather we had today after about a week of clouds and gloomy weather. (Being Friday helped too!)

Yep, just this week I had to call in sick one day. I just could not function. It happens. Not as much as it did a year ago but still it rears its ugly head up once in a while.
Big Bear Hugs
Ralph

I saw your posting about being a zombie.

Unfortunately today I was just the opposite. I was hyper-alert and everything was unbearable.

My days flip-flop between numbness and high alert.

The only comfort I have found is to tell myself to hold on and it will pass. And it always does.

I wish you comfort and healing.

What's really scary is when you know you've driven the ten miles into town and back, but don't remember it at all. Probably lucky I've always been able to find my way home...so no, you're not alone by any means!

Yup, just had about a full week of zombieitis. Praying for better days ahead. We are always listening!

zombie here too.....