Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Christine
I worked with Health & Welfare for 27 years. During that time I also saw some pretty nasty things. However, what you have described goes far beyond what I was exposed to. I do hope that you are give emotional and mental strength to handle the things you work with.
The only bright spot I can offer is that not all people are that evil. Since my husband died I have found that not all , but many people can be very kind and caring. I think it is these people who make life worthwhile and our world a better place. I hope you have some wonderful people around you in your personal life to off set the horrors you run on to at the Defender's Office. Best wishes to you. Darlene
After Bill died, I existed in a dark, hopeless place. I saw no light.
But I am coming to understand that I have the CHOICE to believe in hope, in God, in the light .
Obviously, this world can be desperately dark and that's why we need Jesus - the light of the world. Would we have ever understood what he did for us if we never saw darkness?
These days,,.............until it's my time to re-unite with Bill............... I try to shine my tiny bit of light to others.
As much as there is good in this world, there is also evil. We are not to be ignorant of it...but are called to pray...
God IS listening...but sometimes the minds of men/women just don't care.
peace today for you Tink, as you try to erase these images from your mind...and continue to be compassionate for those who need you most. hugs, Jill
~Loran
As others have posted, with GODS help may you and those those that suffer at the hands of sick people be blessed by GOD.
Hugs
Ralph