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Nicker07
Nicker07
I have been clued to the phone, internet waiting for word on my friends place. He finally had to evacuate.

Meanwhile searching web and talking to friends.

This came across my email from my friend who lost her son to cancer two years ago

Death Changes Everything!
Time Changes Nothing!
I still miss the sound of your voice,
the wisdom of your advice,
the stories of your life
and just being in your presence.
SO no, time changes nothing.
I miss you as much today as I did the day you died.
I just miss you.
Star Bright Angels

I can only add in time adjusting and accepting they are gone - what choices are there otherwise.
scottito
scottito
I am praying for a wall of protection around your home, property and animals. Scott
joannklingaman
joannklingaman
Am also praying for your friends and everyone that is in harms way because of the horrible fires

Love what your friend wrote...

"It's odd what our life becomes once death enters."

Take care
dschwartz
dschwartz
My thoughts and prayers are with you, knowing that you are concerned and doing the utmost best you can for friends and neighbors in need of your help. Sending extra healing thoughts and strength your way. xo, D
JesusisOurSaviour
JesusisOurSaviour
You have been through so much.!! This whole situation must be devastating for everyone.... Know that my family, Church family are all praying for you, your family, friends, animals, water supplies, finances,
I feel so helpless, here, while so much devastation is happening around you!
May God bless you,
Love and hugs to you, Sandra
Joely
Joely
Praying for you and friends!!! The poem is true, but, we do adjust ~~ because that is what we have to do to survive.
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