Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
We came here to feel every experience.
Sometimes everything will be going against you.
Everything will seem impossible.
But you have to keep fighting like a tiger.
Like a mama bear.
After all you are life's earth mother.
Without you...life will remain unborn.
Unloved.
Unfulfilled.
And inexperienced.
You are the mothership.
We...are the mothership.
We are the sun for the earth.
The moon for the stars.
And life's only chance.
Embrace rejection and heartbreak the same way you embrace success and love.
They are one and the same just flipped over.
Keep your core self intact.
And let your branches grow from both sides of the coin.
You are strong enough to withstand loving and losing.
And then loving and losing again.
Until its time to go home.
Until we are no longer able to stay in this body.
I really believe losing someone we love can change everything about our life experience.
And not in the way we imagine.
We change at the soul level.
The soul level is a place where it is not very easy to get to, it is the timeless place of us.
When we have loved and lost that soul level becomes accessible to us.
So when we get back to life everything is redefined.
But without making life our priority that soul level experience won't mean anything.
Once we stop caring about our ego.
We will see that we never lose anything.
Unless we don't choose life.
Then we lose everything.
We didn't come here to stay in hiding.
We came here to feel every experience.
Everything.
Good and bad.
Love and loss.
Life and death.
With life,
Christina
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Just thought I would join this group now that I am a widower. My wife passed away May 28th. She was "The Wind Beneath My Wings". When I met her, I was a drunken, dope smoking, fighting, hell raising biker. She told me if I could get rid of the inner storm within me, that I could be a blessing to people. God placed her in my path to stop me. I have been drug and alcohol free now for 53...