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This made me chuckle, maybe your husband threw the glasses at you. I have things happen like this also. My grandchildren say that grandpa tells my guardian angel & Jesus when I can't find something. You know Tru, they that are in heaven are aware of what is happening here on earth..I guess some answers we will get when we go home ourselves.
Be blessed today.
Cynthia
Maggie
The funny thing is, if I had told him I paid a bill late or bounced a check, he'd bop me on the head like he was reprimanding a child.
I looked up and said "I KNOW you did that!"
I havent laughed all day. Once as I recalled my husband also said I couldnt sing the second time was the accorn, Too cute
why COULDN'T it be your husband? God is all powerful, omnipotent, omnipresent:)
I quit smoking dec 12 2009 because i woke up and david was sitting on the side of my bed and he said, "you gotta quit smoking baby."
well, i quit immediately. he'd been gone 6 months and he must have thought it awfully important for me to quit if he had to come back and tell me himself.
things like this happen. God's all powerful. anything can happen:)
I stopped into the gas station, filled up the car and reached into my purse for my wallet. Pulled out hubbys wallet instead! I guess he wanted to pay for the gas. LOL! And there are so many other little things.....
I really believe that your husband was watching out for you. Since Chris passed away I have experienced many strange, unexplained things. I do believe that they are watching out for us.
Ronda
I think that was definetely your husband. Since my husband passed away, I noticed a lot of strange things happening too. The hardest part for me is taking care of all the accounts, taxes, bills, etc. He used to take care everything. For some reason, I got everything taken care of pretty smoothly. It seem like Phil is sending help for me. I just happened to meet all the right people who could help. And a lot of time, I hadn't done anything yet when I called in the rep said it was taken care of by somebody and surprised himself. I recalled when Phil just passed, I cried out loud and asked him for help with all the paper work. The lights were flicking for a few minutes right away like he heard me and answered me. There are other signs that show he is still around and watching over me. It's been almost 5 months for me now.
You should feel blessed that this happened. There are others who desperately wish for signs from their loved one but never got it. I feel so much comfort when receiving those signs. Take care, Tru ! And thank you all for sharing your experience. That is the strong confirmation that our loved one - their spirits - still live on and watching over us.
Love you all
Kris
If he found them for me, I'm sure he's laughing. I never lost my glasses.
Before he passed I was skeptical of these strange things but now there have been to many to be coincidence. When it happens to others I am more convinced that they are still with us.
So glad that he found you glasses for you. Hugs.
The next morning I found the coffee pot unplugged and I never unplug it.
This morning I got up and the hall light was on and the router I remembered turning off last night in his office was on.....glad others are having these experiences.
I asked Tim a couple of weeks before he died that if there was a way to let me know he got to heaven safely that he would let me know, and he nodded yes. Maybe thats what's happening.
Another weird thing is that every evening our dog goes into super protection mode once or twice. He must be hearing or seeing something I don't. Very interesting conversation.