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Had a great dream right before I woke up this morning.
My wonderful husband was in it. In part of it we were traveling with my family and he was there.
I have very strange dreams and as I am trying to think how to explain it .... it will not make any sense, but in the dream there were several different places and times and he was there with me, THAT was the most important part. He hadn't visited my dreams in too long and I very much enjoyed his "company"
It was sort of fun because in part of the dream we were celebrating his birthday (which was just last month) and it was fun watching him open his presents from me because I could not remember what was in the packages. Turns out it was camping and fishing stuff. Things that he did not have much use for the last few years because he usually hurt to bad to think about doing those things. (No it was not a fatal illness, just chronic back pain).
Anyway, I wish this sort of dream for all of you who would enjoy them.
My wonderful husband was in it. In part of it we were traveling with my family and he was there.
I have very strange dreams and as I am trying to think how to explain it .... it will not make any sense, but in the dream there were several different places and times and he was there with me, THAT was the most important part. He hadn't visited my dreams in too long and I very much enjoyed his "company"
It was sort of fun because in part of the dream we were celebrating his birthday (which was just last month) and it was fun watching him open his presents from me because I could not remember what was in the packages. Turns out it was camping and fishing stuff. Things that he did not have much use for the last few years because he usually hurt to bad to think about doing those things. (No it was not a fatal illness, just chronic back pain).
Anyway, I wish this sort of dream for all of you who would enjoy them.
I, too, look forward to my 'date nights' with hubby. They are comforting and are usually accompanied by a sense of 'it's going to be all right.' Thanks for sharing with us your b-day celebration with hubby. TJ
I had another dream last night, I would not even mention these except before Sat. mornings's it had been a LONG time. I used to dream of him nearly every night.
this most recent one was about a doctors appointment that I have tomorrow for my broken arm.
In the dream ihe was at the appointment with me. and he was looking forward to seeing the man who usually does my x-rays because the same man used to do many of his x-rays for his back surgeries, but it was a different guy who did the x-rays. But it was sure nice having my husband with me at the doctors.
I think that was the hardest part about breaking my arm was not havbing my husband to be with me at the hospital. Another "new" experience to do alone! It really sucks doesn't it?!
But the dream was a very nice gift from God!