I had the same thing happen at an arbys, this guy looked just like seans drivers license pic.. funny thing is.. I told him, my oldest was very protective, mom dont do that.. The guy wasnt taken aback, apoligized that I lost my husband, and even gave me a hug, saying he was sorry my husband passed. This was probably in august. I swore he looked just like sean, made me smile and cry all at the same time. Thnk you for sharing, almost forgot about the time that happened. Funny thing, is I saw he guy a couple of months back, riding as a passenger in a truck... weird.. right? I think it is a way of us recognizing that we will never forget our loves... much love and big hugs carla

So many people have gotten signs that their loved ones are alright. I prayed nightly for a sign and then one Sunday in church as I was standing,singing and praising God when I saw in front of me an image of Jesus and Al walking side by side and smiling. It was amazing.

I know Al didn't want to die but I also know he is now free of pain and walking with Jesus. Every time I think about how jealous I am that all our other friends are still together, enjoying retirement, God reminds me that he gave me 37 years with an incredible man and for that I thank Him.

That's so weird, I saw a young girl at a reading that was a total doppelgnger of my dead wife also. I know she's dead, but it really hit me right in the gut.

It's true, Valentines Day is coming up. It's always the worst when you're single. I'm really glad I have a nice boyfriend who I can have dinner with and who will give me flowers. But there is something heartbreaking bout not being with my wife on Valentine's Day. It's such an emotionally fraught holiday, even more than Christmas. That was bad enough.

It's good that you're getting out there, finding new things to do and a part time job. It's good to stay busy within the grief, although we still feel it.

In the beginning when I first lost Morey, I'd see older men, all the time, who looked just like him. I'd find myself staring at them, I'd just keep looking expecting them to turn and come towards me and say, "it's me, Rozzie, it's me", "I'm here!"

I stopped looking so hard but it still happens. He had one of those kind of faces. The man in the darn commercials on this thread looks like Morey.....now, that's disturbing.

Roz

I haven't seen someone who looks like Don, but in the summer months when the couples and singles start riding I often see the back of someone who has a black bike and helmet like Don's. In the beginning I was reduced to tears to the point I had to stop to cry. It hurt so bad. My son rides and has offered to take me, but after 8 years I still can't handle going. It must remain a cherished memory for me. We rode with an over 50 group. Sharon

Cantina, my wife of 32 years crossed to the spirit realm on June 12, 2015, so I have some idea the emotions you are experiencing. One very important thing I have learned...there is no such thing as coincidence! When you see someone who resembles a departed loved one...especially if that loved one has been the other half of you for maybe half your life...THAT IS NOT A COINCIDENCE! It is a synchronicity, and you are blessed to receive that from the greater Universe.
But this is a matter of faith. There are far too many people in the world who don't believe in it. They'll agree with you to your face, just to make themselves feel compassionate (in that moment); but later they'll say that you must be having emotionally-driven delusions or something..."because everybody knows that kind of stuff doesn't really happen"...then they'll suggest that it must be "just part of the grieving process", and maybe you need "professional help".
Two months after my wife passed, that was the reaction I got from the hospital chaplain when I told him that she did not "die", because I am visited by her daily...in a spiritual way. Well you know what? Piss on him, what does he know? he has never walked in my shoes. This "man-of-the-cloth" is supposed to encourage faith, but here he is judging me for it?
Don't ever let anyone do that to you. The messages that come your way...and the strength of your faith...are between you, your husband, and God.
We are not humans having a spiritual experience...we are spirits having a human experience.
Separation is temporary...reunion is forever.
Love never dies!