Its really bad for me. 3 years ago on V_Day, I buried my husband.. Sandee

TCW, from what I've read, that "big hole in your heart" is to be expected. Since I'm not there yet with another relationship, I may be all wet on this. But perhaps it can remotely be compared to when our parents die. We lose one, but we still love them and cherish our memories of them, but our love for the remaining parent is not diminished by the loss of the other. I think it was Martha CL that had brought up an older post about having 2 hearts -- a really awesome post that maybe somebody could bump it up for us again -- definitely worth revisiting. Anyway, I am sorry you are sad. Be thankful you have a new love to share Valentine's Day with -- being alone is really not any fun at all. ~~ Scottie

I have the blues today also, but I'm trying to remember all of the happy V-days we shared. Our first -38 years ago- he showed up at my door with a white teddy bear holding a red heart. I still have that bear. Then last year year he went out to pickup dinner and returned with a bouquet of tulips (my favorite) and a V-day balloon. The balloon was cheesy, but he knew it would make me laugh. I changed my avatar photo to the balloon, I know he would laugh over that. Peace & hugs, Jo.

My husband was a sentimental fool on V-day, so it will always be his day for me!

I am so sorry sandeesttn! Hugs!

Thanks, everyone! Only 8 more hours to go!

Valentine's Day is sad for me, like you. In addition, I am a designer at a florist and have to hand write all those love messages (fun, good, bad, some x rated) on cards with the flowers! AND men came in constantly, tons of them the last two days with all kinds of comments, good and bad about having to get their wives/girlfriends flowers (interesting job). But it is hard to take, on Valentine's week!!!! My (nice) co-workers haven't a clue I'm suffering inside. They discuss what they are and aren't doing for the big day--their dates etc. I like the reply above "only 8 hours to go".
So thankful for 41 great years though in reflection. And, is this sad or what....re-reading his last Valentine today, so sweet. None of you are alone. So nice to discuss and help/care about each other here. thanks

well, Im there, all of a sudden, it dawned on me. This time last year, me and sean were at a car parts place, getting parts for his truck, and our daughters car. Then we went out to eat for dinner. He didnt give me my valentines card until the next day. the card is very red has a foiled heart on the front and says For my WIFE, I love this life we share.. then it saysThinking back on our life, weve had our share of good times. Weve seen some tough times, too... days when just knowing we had each other made all the difference. I know that as long as youre by my side, I have everything I need to be happy. Then it says And as much as I love the memories weve made, Im looking forward to making new ones even more. Happy Valentines Day, love sean Then he wrote a personal note I know this is late and im SORRY. I have always treid to do things in secret, so you dont know whats coming. You are the love of my life, and I do appreciate all that you do for me and the family. Sometimes I wish you didnt do so much, so your not so tired. I know I need to do more around here for the family, but more so for you! Please forgive me, I will be more attentive. Love you oodles and gobbs 4ever + after. I never felt he didnt do enough for me, or didnt appreciate me. He was the best husband in he whole wide world... Much love to all, only a few more hours and v day is over.. yah!! lol carla