Widows & Widowers Support Group

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Nicker07 02/08/2011

First I cried for Rose knowing what she is going through now,
than I cried for the unexpected loss of Jim such a tragic accident
than I cried for my husband
than I cried for me

Now I am just crying cause I just need to...

Also found out I will probably have to go to court over all this stuff as the stepsons are just not signing the agreement like they said in Jan.
I told my attorney to get tough and kick ass now.

My refinance is being held up waiting for the probate on the property due to them.....grrrrrr

pathoflife 02/08/2011

Your tears represent the compassion you have for Rose and her loss. Those tears sure can bring up old business though. When something sets us off and we melt into a puddle of tears, the deep emotions tumble out leaving us with little control over the flood.

The comment about your crying now just because you need to is such a truism. We need to permit the emotions to show themselves rather than hide in the corners of our heart.

I think you're on the right track as to what you told your lawyer. You need some closure with those clowns. TJ

deleted_user 02/08/2011

(((hugs)))

Hoping tomorrow will b a better day for you.

love,
Carla

deleted_user 02/08/2011

Hugs to you and hope the tears helped to release some of the pain for now.....dealing with my own legal battle with s.s.'s (step sons) so hope your lawyer does kick some ass. God bless and give you wisdom...Hugs, D

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