Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
tech1pc
So here we go. In July of 2012 my stepdaughter died of unknown caused, she was found dead in her bed. in November of 2012 my wife was diagnosed with lung cancer. in February of 2013 I was diagnosed with throat cancer, 3 days later my stepmother died. after 6 1/2 weeks of chemo and radiation I had to go in the hospital because my throat closed up, I was released on a Friday, I went t bed that night and woke up in the Hospital on full life support a week later, all of my organs had shut down from chemo and I had died 3 times and was revived . I later found out my stepson was killed on a motorcycle the day I went into the hospital. in July of 2013 my wife underwent surgery for a melanoma in her eye. after complaining of pain in her back a several trips to the doctor we finally got her admitted to the hospital where they discovered a tumor in her back so again she went under the knife. On September 30 the pathology and MRI results came back and we were told that she was terminal. The cancer had spread to her brain and spine and she had less than 6 months to live. I brought her home with hospice care and she live 2 weeks.
I am so thankful that she didn't have to endure the agonizing pain for a long time but still selfishly wish she was still her with me. She was my best friend, and the love of my life. I believe that my love for her was the reason main I survived and now I'm alone. I am thankful for the 25 years we had together but I feel robbed, we were suppose to grow old together but that plan fell apart in October 14 2013 at 8:33 pm!!
So far my cancer is gone, I had neck dissection in August and they found no cancer, I am having another Pet scan this month.
I am so thankful that she didn't have to endure the agonizing pain for a long time but still selfishly wish she was still her with me. She was my best friend, and the love of my life. I believe that my love for her was the reason main I survived and now I'm alone. I am thankful for the 25 years we had together but I feel robbed, we were suppose to grow old together but that plan fell apart in October 14 2013 at 8:33 pm!!
So far my cancer is gone, I had neck dissection in August and they found no cancer, I am having another Pet scan this month.
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