Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Stronger Mood
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Hi Honey.
It has been a little over 3 months since you were taken from us. So much has happened. I don't cry as much but not because I don't love or miss you but I decided I needed to be stronger for the children and grandchildren. For me it has worked. My procrastination and lack of concentration have improved as well. I had to give up being a foster parent. It turned into a job instead of being something to enjoy. Baby Leyton turned 1 month yesterday.
100 degrees yesterday so I loaded up car to go fishing and camping now today it's supposed to rain. Northern Ca foothill weather. Think I will go up Thursday.
Looks like Michael will start Police Academy next month so I will be staying at his house a lot to watch his 2 little ones. It helps a lot staying busy as possible.
We will be taking you back to Washington at the end of this month as you requested. All 6 kids are going to be there and we are going to try and make it as positive and fun as we can.
Love You Always, John.
Tuesday, June 9, 2015
Hi Honey.
It has been a little over 3 months since you were taken from us. So much has happened. I don't cry as much but not because I don't love or miss you but I decided I needed to be stronger for the children and grandchildren. For me it has worked. My procrastination and lack of concentration have improved as well. I had to give up being a foster parent. It turned into a job instead of being something to enjoy. Baby Leyton turned 1 month yesterday.
100 degrees yesterday so I loaded up car to go fishing and camping now today it's supposed to rain. Northern Ca foothill weather. Think I will go up Thursday.
Looks like Michael will start Police Academy next month so I will be staying at his house a lot to watch his 2 little ones. It helps a lot staying busy as possible.
We will be taking you back to Washington at the end of this month as you requested. All 6 kids are going to be there and we are going to try and make it as positive and fun as we can.
Love You Always, John.
It flowed so easily and spoke of how your filling your days.
Thank you so much for sharing it with us.
Roz
Keeping positive during the burial will be good for the family.
My Deepest Sympathy. Dolores l
I write things like this to my wife also, though I haven't posted them yet.
It's so cathartic to read how we're all feeling in our very own words to our loved ones.
Roz