Last Thursday I got a coffee and parked by the lake. A song came on called "He May be on the Next Cloud Passing By". I heard it on the Christian channel. I have heard it several times but hadn't really listened to the words, but I would always think to myself "I'll be on the next cloud, wait for me". I looked up into the sky at the clouds and saw what looked like a dog. It may seem strange but when I think of my partner Mike, I think of a dog with big fluffy ears which was what the clouds looked like!

I think I just had one. Like most of us here, I have been hoping for a sign. Steve died less than six weeks ago. I am tormented by his last horrible days of cancer.........oh if I could get relief from that mental torture! I keep telling myself he is no longer suffering but that's about as useful as telling myself he is in "a better place." How do I know? Truth is, I don't. No matter how much we believe, no matter how strong our faith is, we really don't know if they are in a better place or not. Well, I was sitting in my house in the middle of a storm and I was talking to him and I said "I know you can't appear to me like you could when you were alive but I just wish I had a way of knowing that you aren't suffering any longer." And right then the sun came out, brilliant bright sunlight in he middle of a storm that has rain rushing down the street like a river. I really felt like it was just for me! Maybe it was a "sign" and maybe it wasn't but it was the first time my soul has felt this light since he died!

Thank you all for sharing your wonderful signs....They are all very uplifting to read about and I'm so happy for all of you having experienced something so special that brought you a moment of peace in your journey.
I had experienced another sign about a week ago when I found an angel that he had bought me and I had placed it next to his urn facing the right side....I found it completely turned around facing a picture of the two of us. [I live alone so there wasn't anyone there to move it] I still have not had a dream but a lot of these little signs have been happening when I'm feeling lowest.

The first month after Tom passed I would see or feel messages but I feel they have left. I believe my new dog "sees" Tom and our dog that passed shortly after Tom did. I don't feel they are around me anymore. I liked seeing those signs maybe it was my own comforting. I just feel the emptiness now physically and emotionally. Any sign is a treasured shell. God Bless You

My husband and I used to watch shows with mediums all the time. Of course, we would say how we would send signs to each other if we died. Of course, I started watching for one immediately after his death in August 2016. Anyway, I was sitting in my garage, watching the last family member leave when I felt the weight of truly being alone after his passing (this was the day after his funeral). As I was sitting there , a humming bird came and hovered over my driveway ( I don't have a green thumb so I have no flowers or humming bird feeders). As I watched in amazement, it flew so close to my face that my eyes crossed just looking at it. It flew to the same spot above my driveway and then returned to me; there I sat with my eyes crossed feeling the breeze of the little guy's wings dry the tears on my face. I know that was a sign.

My 17-year old son is also getting text messages from my husband's friends that always seem to start with, "I felt like I needed to let you know..." followed by whatever they felt the need to share. I also think that this is a sign that his dad is sending to him and his dad is using "father figures" to get his message through to my son.

Another sign I think I may feel is when I have a overwhelming feeling of love, safety, and contentment wash over me. I know in that moment he is sitting right there with me...

a couple of days after my husband passed, last Saturday... my father in law's phone had a message on it , but didn't hear it ring and i was trying to open it since it had frozen... both my mother n law and me decided it was Sean saying he was ok. I also had his favorite butterfly fly across my face the day or two after he passed... It was just the day before yesterday i was talking to my Pastor where she asked the significance of knowing the passing of my husbands death. I told her it would be important for me to know so that way he could communicate and let us know he is alright, right after her cell phone make some noises and i just laughed and cried. The night of his passing we were on our way to the hostipal because we thought he was going to be airlifted, i felt a brush/ like a kiss on my cheek and knew he was gone.

also at his service yesterday, our wedding song "At Last" was played, i closed my eyes and i could swear we were at the reception hall dancing.. it was the most amazing feeling and didn't notice anyone else in the church....

I have had some signs and some visits via dreams..They are the most precious gifts. Shortly after my husband passed, our daughter was looking for some home movies that my husband had transferred to dvd format. We could not find them when they should have been where they were always kept. feeling bad for my daughter who was so upset , I finally went in the basement to look again. Fighting tears I said out loud "Oh honey you don't know how much it hearts , I miss you so much" . I then proceeded to open doors to a built in unit and came across a letter my husband had written to me before we were married while he was away for 4 months on work related training. The letter used to be kept in my night table but had gone missing. Anyway I opened the letter and in the first paragraph where the words "I honey I love you, I don't want to say how much I miss you because it hurts too much " ....I saw that as a sign and within minutes after reading the message I found the family movies exactly in the spot where my daughter and I had look at many times in a matter of days.

Then months later I was going through bins in the garage, most of which had come from his parents ' garage but I did not want to just dispose of them without looking first. I was feeling down and sorry for myself and having a hard time when all of a sudden I felt the need to go through a bin that contained safety goggles and such and as I opened the lid sitting on top was a folded paper. I had opened that bin quickly previously and there were no paper in it. Anyway when I unfolded the paper I realized that it was a calendar page from September 1987 with two important dates circled. The first one was the day we first met and the other was the day we had our very first date. He had written the info inside the circle....I had never before seen that calendar page but I knew it was a sign because of where it was...When leaving each other we would usually say to one another , "Love you, stay safe"

Another time was on a day when I was going to drive my mother-in-law to an important medical appointment. I was stepping out of my grieve to do so because no one else could. Anyway as I was driving to get her, the rain was coming down hard and I wondered if I would have to pull over and wait it out, about that same time 2 yellow butterflies flew along the hood and up the windshield of my vehicle and I knew without a doubt that it was my husband and father in law because there is no way that butterflies are out in torrential rain. Plus we never see yellow butterflies in this area .

Hi Willow, my name is Gail, I lost my husband 16 months ago..of a sudden Heart attack..he passed in his sleep and I found him..he was 70..We were married 50 years..on my Birthday.
We had worked out a code years earlier for who ever passed first.. It would happened on our anniversary and my birthday. I told him I wanted not just red roses but also yellow roses..We have three grown daughters..I told him he could go to anyone of them in a dream and tell them I said too give your Mom yellow and red roses...Well I work up on my birthday/ anniversary and told him now's your chance to proof to me there's life after death....That afternoon I was fixing a sprinkler head in my lawn, I had taken out with my riding lawn mower..My daughter pulled into my drive-way and got of her car..with you guessed it a dozen each of yellow and red roses..She had been at Costco and said she walked by the flowers and for some reason felt like she needed to buy them for me...but the kicker is she said she had red and white in her basket and was heading for the check-out when for some reason she looked back and saw the yellow roses and just turned around and went back and got the yellow...she is probably the closest to my husband..I told her about the code her skeptic dad and I worked out years before he passed and we both had a good cry...
Another sign is music..he liked Rod Stewart's, Forever Young and had it programmed into the entertainment mode of our car..I can be listening to the radio when it will suddenly switch over to Forever Young..This happens also to our daughters..and at our granddaughter's wedding, when the first song they played at the reception in Hawaii where she got married was What a Wonderful World..His all time favorite. They requested it be played, but she kept telling my daughter I wish Grandpa could here..Everyone at the table started to cry because they new it was his favorite..
I wasn't able to go..but they called and told me what had happened..

I've had many signs from my skeptic with butterflies and birds..and white feathers showing up in crazy places..

So Willow just watch for them...I'm sorry for your lose of your husband Jim..Take care of you..My husband's name is Dennis and I miss him everyday.....Don't cry because it's over smile because..it happened..Dr. Seuss....Peace..Gail