Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I don't believe I would want my husband to be reincarnated as an animal. However, I occasionally receive signs that involve one (hummingbird, deer, etc.). This is his way of letting me know he is here.
Hugs, Sandi
Hugs,
Shari
I do believe we are given signs and so on, and I don't think there are any restrictions of how those signs come, but we also need to look at things with a logical frame of mind when we believe there is a sign in order not to hurt ourselves when we come to realize by chance that sign was produced by a logical explanation that we just didn't see before.
I, too, believe that messages are sent through our beloved animals or through other beings. If we stop and take the time to really listen and watch we'll see it.
I have a Service Dog who, after my beloved Morey passed, decided that he was going to take care of me. He's become very protective, he's started to bark if there's a strange noise outside, he will sleep in bed with me, where he didn't do any of this before.
It's amazing how sensitive and loving an animal can become when they feel we're in pain!
I believe the kitty that is hanging around your house is sensing that someone inside is in pain......
I truly hope that there is no reincarnation because when I get to heaven I don't want to have to come back to this world.
However, I think that we can send signs to those left here as well. I have often heard that cardinals are signs from those who have passed on. My husband and I spent the last day before he got sick at a butterfly conservatory. We had a great time. There has been a butterfly hanging around my deck at night which I don't think I ever saw before. I think of butterflies as daytime creatures so it was kind of odd. Anyway, all I could think was that he was sending me his love.
The bottom line is that whatever you think is okay. Maybe the cat wants to be your comfort. Maybe he/she needs a home. They are very nice to cuddle with when you are lonely.
Hugs, Veronica