Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Does anyone have recurring dreams doing the same thing and at the same place? I had recurring dreams at the same exact place and doing the same thing. I am always looking/searching for my husband. I could see him but I always ended up standing alone watching him faded away.
shelda
Sounds like a nightmare your having ,they say the brain is quite remarkable and maybe its your subconscious coming to grips. I never had dreams like that ,though when he first died i dreamt of him and awoke and remembered he was dead and wanted to sleep all the time. He never came back in my dreams ever again and its been 43 years .With my last husband I could hear him talk but knew it was in my mind but hoped it wasn't. These overwhelming feelings are so vivid especially right after . You do learn how to cope with them in time not all the time but for me the waves are not as bad now. I have been trying to see life as worth living because i see the beauty of it all. Hugs to you.
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