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But, interestingly enough, I can watch Boston Legal. I have no idea why some of these "always watch together" shows I cannot watch but Boston Legal I can. It could be because my husband would laugh and laugh at Shatner playing Denny Crane.
Every breeze, every flower, even nothing at all can make me think of her. I haven't watched that show since. Perhaps I could, perhaps not, it's just not that important to me.
Ken
Yes this really does stink.
Carol
We would together watch HGTV-house Hunters, American pickers, and Deadliest catch.
Our favorite show was Idol, and it was so hard watching the rest of this season without him,,,he wanted Scotty to win, and he did, and I am so glad that I did, watch it the end.
Weird thing, now I am addicted to the tv when I am home. Turn it on, when I come in, and only off, when I go to bed. Since Phil got sick, he really couldn't do much, except watch tv...so I think it is making me feel that he is still here. I am not in the room most of time, it is just background "music".
Of course, he is, he will always be with me.
Sad and Happy memories
You are so right everyone....THIS STINKS!! BUT It's comforting to know I'm not the only one,who's lost touch with the TV world at night! lol
I MISS BOSTON LEGAL......AND MORE IMPORTANTLY MY HUSBAND!!!!
Sometimes I give myself permission to be that way. If I can handle so much else, I cut myself some slack that some things will always be off the menu.
Btw, Star Trek - the original 60's series - was one of the things I could watch with my sons after Cliff died. They hadn't seen it before, and they loved it. I couldn't watch any broadcast tv at all. I stopped watching the news, and couldn't face the romantic comedies, family sitcoms, coverage of disasters, etc. I was too torn up to be able to sit through that stuff. So me and the kids watched Star Trek and every action-adventure or WWII or submarine movie ever made. I took DVDs out of the library for free. If I was strong enough on any given day to hear the news, I could always get it online.
I guess I had plenty of drama in my life without "reality tv"......
We watched Dr. Who for years, and now that I'm in the UK, I get to see the episodes fresh. :)
The first was "NCIS". Love it! Love me some Gibbs! But, I can;t bear to watch it now without him. I catch it every now and then but it's not the same without him sitting beside me.
The second was "Amazing Race". i still watch it. I think it is because sometimes they go somewehre we had been and it brings back such good memories!
I'm happy you finally were able to sit and watch your show