It does get a bit easier but....everyday is a challenge...I find that I was fine at the year anniversary but now at almost 13 months it seems to be creeping up on me again...I too sometimes feel that everyone is tired of hearing about my husband but I will always talk about him and I find that helps at times...hugs to you...

Hello Jennifer (and Rosie), looks like we are the night shift. Glad you are back with us Jennifer, been a while since I've read from you. Just remember that love is eternal, you couldn't stop loving Danny if you wanted to. Some day your friends will understand when they have to endure this in their life. Until then, they will continue to be as we all were, living in ignorant bliss.

Well ladies, as for me, I had a good cry this evening. I actually watched a movie by myself -- my first solo since Juani died, and actually only about my 4th movie, no tv either. So I guess it is a breakthrough of sorts for me.

Jennifer, recognize how blessed you were to have had the love you did with Danny. For all of us, no matter how much time we had, it was never enough. I am so sorry, and I know you hurt. We all do. ~~~ Scottie

It's been almost 4 months since I was last on, too much to handle I think. Tonight I had a great cry too.. I still can't go to the movies or watch tv shows we watched together. its nice to be back and open up again.

Its not that its easier, it's just becoming more acceptable. You can always come here and talk about him all you want. I know the feeling, my friends, Im sure are tired of me saying, sean did this, or he wouldve done that, but he will always be a part of you. So just flufff it off, some people just don't know what to say or do. Much love and big hugs carla

Carla say whatever you want whenever you want....I am so at peace when i am here because I always feel that no matter what I say there is always kindness and understanding here...

Hey Jennifer,
It's just not possible or realistic to expect someone to just drop a person because physically they are not around. It's what is in your heart that is the only thing that matters. He will be there as long as you want him to be. And in the end you will see him again. I don't just believe that I know it to be true. We all will. Don't worry about your friends because friends don't get annoyed with someone who they know is grieving like this and they care about. My wife went home with the Lord in August and our 16th anniversary was in Sept. It was hard but I made it thru because she would have wanted me to and he would want you to also. So take care of yourself and come here where we never get annoyed because we are in the same boat.
Peace, Tim