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Hi all. I'm sending this post out early in hopes that you can "save the date." We DSers are so scattered that there are many who haven't had the chance to attend a GatheringPhilly, IN/Chicago, OH, AL, KY, or SoCal. In September, point your car toward Ohio, my little spot on this planet, and get ready for some fun, rest, and relaxation with friends.
I hope you will consider joining us. It will be a day to connect and put a face with a nameat last! The other Gatherings have been great fun and uplifting. I think it surprised all of us how quickly we bonded. Conversations ranged from lighthearted and fun loving to camaraderie between determined survivors. What a special group of people the DSers arekindhearted, supportive, and compassionate.
OHIO GATHERING
WHEN:
September 16-18, 2011. The main day being Saturday, September 17, 11:30 a.m.
WHERE:
The Gathering will be held at my house (address to be given by private message), and, if weather permits, I will be sure to have the bonfire going for our evening S'mores. I promise, my DS friends who gave me a hard time last year, I WILL eat a S'more and not pick it apart and eat the Hershey bar, then the marshmallow, and finally the Graham Crackers. I had to endure a little rib poking about my idiosyncrasy, but all's well that ends well. It was yummyall three parts!
LODGING:
Hampton Inn, 11484 Allen Road, Jeffersonville, OH 43128 (same as last year for those of you who will be returning) (1-71 Exit 65 @ Route 35) (740-948-9499), $89.00, not including tax. This includes a hot Continental Breakfast.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
To receive the special price, there is a Code to mention when making your reservation. Please contact me by private message, and I will be glad to give you that Code. If we are not yet friends, please make a friend request so that I can give you additional information privately.
For those who would have the opportunity to stay longer and enjoy some just plain fun hangin' out together, that would be WONDERFUL to schedule a few extra days at the motel. There are always fun things to do in the area, and we certainly don't want to rule out the all-favorite thing of talking, talking, talking.
I'm looking forward to your replies as to whether you can join the Gathering. The circle keeps growing! TJ
I hope you will consider joining us. It will be a day to connect and put a face with a nameat last! The other Gatherings have been great fun and uplifting. I think it surprised all of us how quickly we bonded. Conversations ranged from lighthearted and fun loving to camaraderie between determined survivors. What a special group of people the DSers arekindhearted, supportive, and compassionate.
OHIO GATHERING
WHEN:
September 16-18, 2011. The main day being Saturday, September 17, 11:30 a.m.
WHERE:
The Gathering will be held at my house (address to be given by private message), and, if weather permits, I will be sure to have the bonfire going for our evening S'mores. I promise, my DS friends who gave me a hard time last year, I WILL eat a S'more and not pick it apart and eat the Hershey bar, then the marshmallow, and finally the Graham Crackers. I had to endure a little rib poking about my idiosyncrasy, but all's well that ends well. It was yummyall three parts!
LODGING:
Hampton Inn, 11484 Allen Road, Jeffersonville, OH 43128 (same as last year for those of you who will be returning) (1-71 Exit 65 @ Route 35) (740-948-9499), $89.00, not including tax. This includes a hot Continental Breakfast.
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:
To receive the special price, there is a Code to mention when making your reservation. Please contact me by private message, and I will be glad to give you that Code. If we are not yet friends, please make a friend request so that I can give you additional information privately.
For those who would have the opportunity to stay longer and enjoy some just plain fun hangin' out together, that would be WONDERFUL to schedule a few extra days at the motel. There are always fun things to do in the area, and we certainly don't want to rule out the all-favorite thing of talking, talking, talking.
I'm looking forward to your replies as to whether you can join the Gathering. The circle keeps growing! TJ
Dave
Oh no, you are my Ginger Snap enthusiast! We made such a good team with those "Snaps." I will miss you being here with us, especially the soft gentle way you added to our conversations.
You're right, Susan, about the friendships that are developed over a couple of days at the Gatherings. When we survivors meet one another face to face, it's a confirmation that we are only one of so very many who are feeling the same loss and desperation to connect with those who understand. Hope we can meet at another Gathering in the future. Blessing to you my friend. TJ
Maggie
I sure wish it were possible for you to be here. There is no lack of fun, but kindness and compassion prevails as we get acquainted and realize that none of us are alone on this journey. This Web site proves that over and over with so many wonderful people ready to reach out to those who are just beginning the journey.
Maybe it will be possible for you to catch another one. They seem to have taken root on DS, and they pop up in various locations. If something should change and you are able to break away for that weekend, come join us. Not sure where you're located in NY, so uncertain of the driving time involved. TJ
L
As far as your question of the motel rooms, each person makes their own reservation. I reserved a block of rooms to be held for the Gathering; the DS members call the motel with a code that I give them to receive a discount. If you want to call and reserve a room, please notify me by private message, and I will give you additional details.
Here's hoping that you will consider joining us. I know it's a long drive, but when I attended the Gathering in Philly, it was worth every mile. TJ
Many have already made their motel reservations, and a few have finalized their flight reservations.
I am hoping that lots of DSers can be here for that weekend. This Gathering will include some new members who plan to attend. Come on folks, we all need a break from the routine and responsibilities that tend to weigh us down. The Gatherings give us something to plan towarda get-awaya time to relax and mix with those who are on our same journey.
I look forward to seeing old friends and meeting new ones. TJ