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These holidays I thought I was doing fairly well but I can not quit crying today.
Woke up to water in pasture so water line might be broken or leaking with 6-8" snow to get through, another expense to afford
I just wish this would hurry up and be over with. My daughter wants me to come over Christmas eve I just do not want to...
Woke up to water in pasture so water line might be broken or leaking with 6-8" snow to get through, another expense to afford
I just wish this would hurry up and be over with. My daughter wants me to come over Christmas eve I just do not want to...
lovelos
So sorry you are having a bad day. I can` t understand why we all have to suffer so much.....I went to my family Christmas today and it was so hard to look around the room and not see my husband there. I broke down a few times and was unable to eat anything but was nice to see the grandchildren. Lu Ann
deleted_user
Unexpected expenses can put us over the edge until they're fixed can't they... believe me, I know how you feel. You'll figure out the right thing to do. If it's an emergency, you'll figure it out quickly, and if it can wait, you'll know when the time is right. I pray for peace in your life and hope you have a much better day tomorrow. Hang in there, the holiday season is almost over...and this too shall pass. Big hug to you!
deleted_user
It is strange how the waves of grief come at us and hit us hard. Yesterday and today both have been hard for me, Facing that first Christmas without Mack. Family gatherings were everyone wants you to be happy and make you feel better. I am thankful that this "family" here is comfortable with my grief, Prayers are lifted for you and hoping that the next day will be less painful.
NewRoadsForMe
If you are supposed to go over to your daughter's Christmas Eve and you don't want to, I think it would be so sweet if someone in the family would come get you and drive you there and drive you back home. That way you wouldn't be on the road so long all alone and time to fall into deep despair. I think it would be OK to ask if anyone in the family could come pick me up and take me back home afterwards. It would be a lovely thingg for someone who loves you to do.
deleted_user
Today was hard for me also. From the moment I woke up, I knew it was going to be a tearful day. Tomorrow is a new day. I have alot to get done so I hope its better than today. Dar
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