Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Blessings to All, whatever Holiday you may be celebrating (for me it is Christmas)....And may you find Peace & Joy in the coming year....
~E~
To figure out what I enjoy doing...It's been 'so not about me' for so long, I just don't know...There are alot of things I should be doing, and doing better, but that's not the question....What do I enjoy doing?
I hope it's fun finding out! I'm enjoying reading the responses, thanks!!
jules
1. Be happy for whatever and whoever you have, and whatever and whoever you once had.
2. Be grateful for small blessings, unexpected wonder, loud laughter, minor successes, and new knowledge.
3. Be selfless - every person is precious - share the wealth of yourself. Someone needs you.
4. Love whoever is still here, starting with yourself first.
5. Dont give up.
(My full journal entry on this is at http://www.dailystrength.org/people/147213/journal/1771783 )
This coming year I do have a specific goal to add: Reunite with my sons. They are still in the US with my sister looking after them. It's excruciating not to be with them.
Love and Hugs, Martha
I am with most of you I need to find out what I enjoy.
Holly