Ok. I went to a theater play in my town today.  Of course all by myself. Anyway it was a "Midsummer Nights Dream" by Shakesphere that I had never seen before.  I was pleasantly surprised and enjoyed it very much.  After the play I had the desire to go to a restaurant my husband and I went to every Thursday before he died.  We got to know the owners and the wait staff very well.  I hadn't been back to there since he died.  After the play I decided to go and get the special drink they made for me and an appetizer.  I started to go home and turned around to go back.  I had never done anything like this before by myself.  When I entered the restaurant I saw the waitress I had become friends with along with the owner.  I sat down at the bar, ordered my drink and appetizer and had a conversation with some of the other patrons at the bar.  It was great.  I am so glad I made myself do this.  I don't intend to become a barfly but going to a comfortable place was like going to "Cheers".  I enjoyed it and it made my weekend so much better. I think I will do it again.