I have a real problem, My husband and I have an old friend from High School. We have both known him for over 25 yrs. He has been a part of or lives on and off for that many as well. Coming to our home visiting, Taking our kids fishing, camping with us ect. I never allowed him to be around with out my husband being there because I always felt that he had stronger feelings for me and it made me uncomfortable. I told him on several occasions that I was happily married and he was welcome to come visit as long as my husband was aware and present. When my husband passed away he came to the visitation and funeral- it seemed fine to me as we all had known eachother so long. Since then he calls me alot, ( I have my husband's phone number now) texts me alot and sometimes shows up in the town i live in to try to see me. For a while I was making excuses such as being at work or busy but it didn't stop. I finally told him I wasn't interested in having him visit and it felt disrespectful to me to have him there without my husband. He keeps trying saying that he only wants me to feel better and wants me to be happy and start living life. Does any one have any ideas on how I can handle this? I don't have feelings for him romanticly. He was more like a brother or just good friend. thanks for any input
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