Widows & Widowers Support Group
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Wilf died in October and since then it is nothing but bad luck.
In November half my outside Christmas decorations were stolen.
Between February and May all of my 39 chickens were killed by various means, mainly foxes.
Then TODAY I get my purse stolen by a child from my closed car - it was a scam - adults in a car along side doing the distraction while he must have calmly reached in the passenger door across to my drivers seat while I was loading shopping in the boot. Little Bas......
So now I have to renew my social cards (no pension until renewed), my road rescue card (hope I dont break down), my debit card (no money for 7 days!!), my library card etc etc. I have no money and cant get any (will have to borrow) - I had been to the bank yesterday so THEY are OK with MY 300 Euro.
Just to finish me off today, while I was looking for my house insurance policy to see how I am covered, I came across 2 pictures of Wilf which just destroyed me.
WHAT NEXT? WHAT ELSE CAN GO WRONG? CANT TAKE ANY MORE? HAVENT GOT ANY MORE STRENGTH?
In November half my outside Christmas decorations were stolen.
Between February and May all of my 39 chickens were killed by various means, mainly foxes.
Then TODAY I get my purse stolen by a child from my closed car - it was a scam - adults in a car along side doing the distraction while he must have calmly reached in the passenger door across to my drivers seat while I was loading shopping in the boot. Little Bas......
So now I have to renew my social cards (no pension until renewed), my road rescue card (hope I dont break down), my debit card (no money for 7 days!!), my library card etc etc. I have no money and cant get any (will have to borrow) - I had been to the bank yesterday so THEY are OK with MY 300 Euro.
Just to finish me off today, while I was looking for my house insurance policy to see how I am covered, I came across 2 pictures of Wilf which just destroyed me.
WHAT NEXT? WHAT ELSE CAN GO WRONG? CANT TAKE ANY MORE? HAVENT GOT ANY MORE STRENGTH?
Starting tomorrow after I have put things in motion to replace what was lost, I will try to accumulate some strength. It would help if I was sleeping - I am still up and it is 6.00 am here. Might talk to the doctor about that. Thank you all again. Fay
It has gotten better. Things still go wrong but they aren't as bad. Gives me a new perspective on the phrase "Don't sweat the small stuff" Boy...things I would have gotten upset over before are all small stuff compared to whats happened.
I hoping & praying you get it all sorted.
Big hugs,
Nancy
Alice