Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
I'm 24, I have a 9 month old son, and my husband passed away 2 weeks ago today. I feel so alone, my heart hurts every second of every day. My husband died unexpectedly after a surgery from a blood clot. My house feels so empty, I keep thinking about how my son will grow up without any memories of his father. I'm angry, heartbroken, and so alone. I keep thinking this didn't really happen, that he's going to walk through the door any second and give me a kiss and pick up our son and hug him. I'm just hoping someone can give me some advice on how to get through this loss.
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Today I feel grateful. Grateful for my dog Blue (Blue Jean Baby Queen, Prettiest girl I've ever seen). Grateful I'm still kickin'. Grateful I'm finally taking responsibility for my health. Grateful I own my home. Grateful for good friends and neighbors who watch over me. Grateful to God for His everlasting love and patience with me. Grateful I survived the 10 years since my wife of 30 years...


My husband also passed away 2 weeks ago yesterday. I have all those same feelings. Our children are 13,16 and 20 with a 9 month old grandson. I feel very alone. If you would like to talk you can call or text me 302-603-4104 my names Mimi and we all could use new friends going through this terribly scary time. Sending love and prayers to you and your son. I write letters to my husband everyday. It helps pass time and just tell him how I'm feeling. I wish I could say writing makes it better but it just lets me release what I'm feeling.