Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Hi All,
I have posted here before about losing my x boyfriend and best friend on October 14, 2016. We did not live together, so I did not see him every day, although we did either text or speak every day. I wonder if he was my husband and I saw him every day if that would make his loss more real. I still can't get over that I wil never see him or speak with him again!!!! It still does not seem real. I know it has not been that long....I just wondered if I had seen him everyday and now I don't that it would be more real for me. Sounds crazy i know. Wondering if anyone has any thoughts? I cry almost every day on my way to work. But that is when we would text our good mornings.....
Still heartbroken
Life is a changing journey, it has thrown us an upheaval that is a challenge.
Tears are an expression of our feelings....
You are showing strength: you are getting up, dressing, eating, you are going to work.
A local hospital or church may offer a support group.
Keep positive....
jdp