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Another one of those little clippings i have kept
I's like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy
times and bright sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun of
happy memories that I leave when life is done.
When someone who love who is your partner the beginning of the loss is so hard to handle the tears, agony, gut wrentching loss is just so hard trying to bring up what this says is truly just hard to do....
BUT I feel with me anyway in time I could see photos and not cry, remember happy events and not be so sad there were no more....but now relish in what a wonderful time we had - and smile.
Yeah there are tears of loneliness, missing him and wanting it to not be this way but now after 19 months I feel I can not just feel horrible times of the beginning of "OUR end" AND I too hope I can leave some of those times when its my time - I know my Roger would feel like this.....AND I try hard to believe in this...
I hope it helps someone who is hurting horribly now.....TO KNOW their loved ones do want them to go through their grief but remember like it says....
I's like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy
times and bright sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun of
happy memories that I leave when life is done.
When someone who love who is your partner the beginning of the loss is so hard to handle the tears, agony, gut wrentching loss is just so hard trying to bring up what this says is truly just hard to do....
BUT I feel with me anyway in time I could see photos and not cry, remember happy events and not be so sad there were no more....but now relish in what a wonderful time we had - and smile.
Yeah there are tears of loneliness, missing him and wanting it to not be this way but now after 19 months I feel I can not just feel horrible times of the beginning of "OUR end" AND I too hope I can leave some of those times when its my time - I know my Roger would feel like this.....AND I try hard to believe in this...
I hope it helps someone who is hurting horribly now.....TO KNOW their loved ones do want them to go through their grief but remember like it says....
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My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
I hope my children will have happy memories of me. That they will know that we were able to survive and get back to being happy, and that it's okay to remember the good times, that life should be filled with more than tears.
Good poem and good thoughts! Thanks for sharing it!
Love and Hugs, Martha
'they will forget what you say, and forget what you do, but they will NEVER forget how you made the FEEL."
Words to live by, and legacies to leave for the next generation.
Love and many hugs Nicker on a wonderful thoughtful post
Diane