That was supposed to be ‘thank you AND God Bless you all’

I send My Deepest Sympathy. I know your heart is broken. Take one day at a time. Try to take the best care of yourself that you can. This is truly a tragedy. If there is a bereavement group near, you might try to go to their meetings. Others there will help and lend support. It will take time to heal. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May peace be with you. Love and Hugs, Dolores

Thank you so much, Dolores.. I looked into some local bereavement groups, but haven’t found one that I’m connecting to. I so agree that we need to take excellent care of ourselves and each other during this time.. Working on that.

My heart breaks for you. Let the tears fall, they can be healing. I understand the just going through the motions. I was on auto-pilot for a long time. Getting thru the day and then going home to what I called reality. Weird was my word for a long time, My life was/is just weird everything has changed. I found a grief share at my church that was very helpful. This place too is great to come reach out or just watch/read. Take care and God bless you also.

Thank you, Kimberlina.. I am so very sorry for your loss, as well..
It’s going to take time for all of us, of course.. So glad you found a Grief Share that helped you.. I’ve been looking, but there’s nothing close to me right now.
I am glad to have found this place.. God bless you. You deserve amazing healing and happiness.

I’m so sorry for your loss my husband passed 7 weeks ago, I can cry anytime anywhere I never know when its going to happen. It will take us all time. I’m glad u found this support group, glad u r here.
I try to plan something everyday anything, take one day at a time.
I wish u and all of us healing and happier days. It will get better.

Thank you, Sancan.. My heart goes out to you... Same thing here- I cry whenever, wherever it comes over me and it hurts! It sounds like you’re doing a lot of right things.. I wish the very same.

Hope Hospice has a group that meets both in the day and evening. I believe it's once a week. Hugs,

Checked their website and it looks like they’re only in FL.. I’m in MD. Thank you so much, though.,

Here is one in Charles County:

http://hospiceofcharlescounty.org/support-groups/

Here is one in St. Mary's County:

https://www.hospiceofstmarys.org/grief-support/

I hope this helps. I am sorry for your loss, and the loss of your future plans. I know that one all too well. Cliff and I discussed all our plans for the future the night before he died of a heart attack - totally unexpected at the age of only 55. In moments, all our plans were gone. This is the only place where I found other people who really understood what exactly that meant. I hope being here helps you, and I hope you find a face-to-face group, too. Welcome.

Love and Hugs,
Martha

Hi Martha,
Thank you for sending the info on the groups.. But those locations are very far. i’m looking though..
Unbelievable that you and your husband were just talking about your plans .. Craig had just pointed out townhouses for us to look at and was actively looking for a home for us near the water..
i’m glad to have found this place too..
Xo,
Rachel

My husband passed 8 weeks ago today and I can not imagine going through the rest of my life without him. I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my dad unexpectedly at the age of 58 the shock is devastating. My husband had been in an ICU out of town for 7 months and I watched him decline daily. No matter what we are never prepared for this. My heart goes out to you this is a great place to be because unless you experienced it you do not know what it feels like.
Luann

You might try searching on the Griefshare site for a local one closer to you:

https://www.griefshare.org/

Hugs....

Thank you..:)
Did that too. They either haven’t started yet, just finishing or too far. Honestly, i’m Just glad to be here. xo

Oh my goodness! Dear one, you have lost the love of your life SUDDENLY. You say you're just going through the motions and that is absolutely normal. You are in shock. I remember being at that place. My husband died suddenly also.
I understand your feelings concerning the future, but I can tell you it will not always be this way. It WILL get better. Not tomorrow, but soon, you'll start having good days and you'll see the hope that is in your future. I couldn't see a future for myself either, but God had better plans for me than I could tell. I am sure He does for you as well.
It's important that you rest as much as needed and that you take care of your health. Grief is exhausting. It drains you of energy. You can really only take one day at a time, and sometimes only one hour at a time; but you will get through this. I'm so sorry you have to walk this path, and I pray you'll feel God's comfort as you go.