Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Lost some many family members in a month back in july. How am I suppose to get over losing my husband he was my best friend? His parents and little brother that I've lived with on and off for 8yrs? My dad that I've spent just about every day since my mother's death right before Thanksgiving 2015? I spent so much time trying to take care of my mother before she passed. She died in my car one morning. They was able to bring her back. She had so many close calls. My dad as well with his issues. I've saved both my parents and mother n law at one time or another over the last few years. I never thought I would lose everyone I talk to everyday at once. Everyone I was the closes to has died. I never felt so alone, scared and wanting to give up. But I can't I have my 6yr son to take care of. He was the only to survive the accident where I lost my husband, his parents, little brother, and Bob that's been around the family for 30+ yrs. I wish I had someone to lean on but I dont. It's just me and my son. I'm only 26 I shouldnt have to deal with all this. I've had a family member rob me just for money for drugs. She not only stole money but my dead mothers jewerly. Social Security cards, birth certificates, marriage certificate, and blank checks. Stuff I can't replace. By The only person that was gonna help me. Now I have to move where I feel safe before I get robbed again. Mayb I'll be able to sleep then. I barely can get through the day. I worked with my husband, father in law and bob. It's hard to go to work or home. My apartment is filled with stuff that belong to people that's passed and along with 3 urns. I can't even pack a box with crying. Losing 8 people at once is too much to handle. I so want to give up. No one understands.
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I am going to a Grief Share group. There are people there that have lost members of their families and are going through the stages of grief. It helps to share your feelings. I found this group by going to griefshare.org and entering my zip code. It showed me a couple of places that had a group close to me. They are usually held in a church in the evening or on Saturdays. Anyone can go....you don’t have to be affiliated with a church.
I am so very sorry for all you have gone through and the pain you are feeling. I will pray for you. Stay strong. God bless you....Linda
https://whatsyourgrief.com/cumulative-grief-aka-grief-overload/
https://whatsyourgrief.com/finding-a-grief-counselor/