Widows & Widowers Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

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Nicker07 08/13/2011

Second visit since I lost Roger. It feels good to come visit Maddox (2 1/2) I will snoop around at places just to see where near here I want to land. I know the job market is alittle better here for ad temps jobs even. But I know the terrain is sooo diffferent I will truly miss my mts and all the wildlife as that is me but I also know my heart is not in my place now, I can not physically keep it up nor financially....SO I relucantly but willingly looking where I may start over..

Meantime today I am enjoying family....

Will be back Monday back to my slow sppeed dial up....

deleted_user 08/13/2011

(((hugs)))
Good luck with your search...and hope you get back to the land of DSL soon!

love,
Carla

deleted_user 08/13/2011

Understand what you are saying...............I did the same thing and am almost in my new home............couple more weeks..................get back to us asap.
L
Many of us are searching.....................and finding what we can for comfort...............

lovelos 08/13/2011

Good luck searching for your new home. Nice to hear from you...glad you are spending time with your family, hugs Lu Ann

Caroline04 08/13/2011

I hope everything works out for you as you begin your "new life". You made a decision that could not have been an easy one. Wishing you all the best!

deleted_user 08/13/2011

good luck with your search. i too am thinking down size my place. when look at smll place today. have sell house first. i know what you mean when you say to much keep it up. hate too only thing is i have to give up my dog too so. jan

julie50501 08/13/2011

Good luck, I am glad you are moving ahead to your new life. I am relatively happy here in OR, but still miss him so much, and the house where we lived for almost 20 years. Nothing will ever be the same as what we had, and I know it is the same for you. One step at a time, and I hope you find your new place soon!

cliffskat 08/14/2011

I think it's good you can do some exploring this way, and I hope it goes well. Enjoy your time with your family too!

Love and Hugs, Martha

NewRoadsForMe 08/14/2011

Best wishes for finding just the right place for you. I have prayed that you will. I admire your courage to forge ahead and do what you are doing!
Kathleen

Comfortablynumb 08/15/2011

I found that I feel a burst of energy every time I am I in a new place. I love the comfort of my home, but I am convinced that eventually I will move from here to start a new page of my life. Good luck. Hope it will be a great positive change for you !

Joely 08/15/2011

Hope while you are "snooping" you see just the right place for you. Enjoy that family for sure.
Hugs, Joely

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