Nicker07, sounds like you have a good, safe plan for tomorrow. This time tomorrow you will be free of those stepsons. One more load off your shoulders. You have come so far already and have shown such determination and strength. You are an encouragement to me. And I like the way you talk- straight.

I am so happy for you! Will be so good to have it over! I also have this problem with his step-sons needing to come and get his things. I have been asking them to come for a year now, and they have ignored my requests. I would think they would want his truck bank and knife collection at least! I have stopped bugging them about it, but soon I will need to do something, as the house is going on the market and I am moving. It appears as if we won't have much contact in the future, though I am going to try and keep in touch with the grandkids.

I'm glad it will be over with soon, so you can get that burden off your neck.... and it's really good that you don't have to be there. you have had to deal with so much. And yes, it is a shame, but shame on them! And I like what your friend said about karma. do they really think their dad would be proud of them for what they put you through? I don't think so... Hang in there, I like your style.

Its done, they are gone, not without some upset over a stupid VISE that was bolted to the table top in garage, finally they got it, I wanted them to not make it a big deal, he did, I got ticked and upset.

SO now to let go, its one stupid vise not the principle of the thing -
I am better but working on settling down about it.

YEAH its over over over

What a HUGE step you took today and it is done for ever and ever. Now you can think on more positive things and put the misery-causing guys out of your mind. What can you do tomorrow to celebrate this milestone? Treat yourself to something nice that you enjoy!
Kathleen

Splurge on something nice for your new bathroom!

I'm glad for you that is done with. Now you can move on to other things that need to be done.