Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Nicker07
With computer up & running I have changed a few more things in my life. I hired a guy to finish my bathrm, the trim & remainder stuff in kitchen, hole in deck, carpet back on deck, etc. I am just too tired, too exhausted & too emotional to deal w/it all.
I also turned over to my daughter, the dealings of my husbands little hobby business sale. That way I do not deal w/his sons (which started well I want this & I want that all over again) I came unglued, lost it, threw a tantrum, had a breakdown & that when I decided too much going on I can not deal w/it.
Garage sale over, Thank the Lord. Did well.
My house goes up for sale - My realtor wants it on the market just after July 4th so we have a lot to get finished. I am letting my daughter & Grandkids help me move stuff into storage, clean out each room, set them up - all things to be repaired hired this guy so we should be close or maybe some things will be in progress...
I am not looking forward (sadly too) to moving.
Too emotional, too physically overwhelming, and financially not good to stay.
I also realized that July 31st is getting close, Rogers anniversary of his death & emotionally I was reacting.
So I am just taking things easier (working on believing they will come together - if its 2 wks later than July 4th oh well) BUT I truly want to get it sold - I was told (hope its true) 5 acre horse set ups are few and far between...I hope its true.
I also turned over to my daughter, the dealings of my husbands little hobby business sale. That way I do not deal w/his sons (which started well I want this & I want that all over again) I came unglued, lost it, threw a tantrum, had a breakdown & that when I decided too much going on I can not deal w/it.
Garage sale over, Thank the Lord. Did well.
My house goes up for sale - My realtor wants it on the market just after July 4th so we have a lot to get finished. I am letting my daughter & Grandkids help me move stuff into storage, clean out each room, set them up - all things to be repaired hired this guy so we should be close or maybe some things will be in progress...
I am not looking forward (sadly too) to moving.
Too emotional, too physically overwhelming, and financially not good to stay.
I also realized that July 31st is getting close, Rogers anniversary of his death & emotionally I was reacting.
So I am just taking things easier (working on believing they will come together - if its 2 wks later than July 4th oh well) BUT I truly want to get it sold - I was told (hope its true) 5 acre horse set ups are few and far between...I hope its true.
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I hope it brings peace, and some much needed relaxing from all that you have to go through.
Hoping also for you that they ARE far and few between!!!
All the best!
Diane
(((hugs))
Hoping it goes well and you get some peace in your life.
Carla