I am so SO sorry for your loss. All of us in this group understand what you're feeling right now. The circumstances vary somewhat from one to another of us, but we all know the pain, the alone-ness that comes with losing the one we thought we would be with forever.

I wish I could say something that would ease your pain just the smallest bit, but I can only tell you that you are not alone. Your husband was ill, and he was your main focus for so long. Now try to focus on yourself and what you need to do (or not do) to get through this; take care of YOU.

There are some really wonderful, caring people in this group who will help in any way they can.

Jan

Hi and I am glad you found this group. I am so sorry for your lose. My heartfelt prayers are with you. Christine

I am truly sorry you have to go through the experience of losing your husband. Welcome to this site and I am very glad you found this support group so quickly. Stay close to those who love you and know you have friends who totally understand what you're going through right here. We're only a click away.
With care,
Amy

I feel your pain and I wish that none of this would have happened. I am so sorry for his death and what is left of you. You can be surrounded with a room for of loved ones, have friends galore, but the pain and loneliness will always be there. There is no clear, easy way out of this misery that you have to experience. You are in the right place here at DS. Keep moving forward, it might . . . no, it will get hard but keep moving. Take care.

I am very sorry for your loss. I am happy that you found this support group because you are no longer alone; you have friends who have been there and understand how you feel. We know how alone and scared you feel. I lost my husband of 27 years in February 2009 and I remember the day after his death like I was in a dream. I was so confused, scared and feeling so lost - which is what you are feeling right now, but take it from me, it gets better with time (believe it or not). My prayers are with you. God will give you the strength to cope. You are not alone.

I am so very sorry for the loss of your husband. It is an awful thing to go through. Be good to yourself, try to be strong and take comfort in those that love you. Shirley

I just read all the messages that have been sent to you and I guess there is not much more that I can say because they have said it all. Always remember to take one day at a time and focus on YOU right now. Time does heal believe me but we all know that this is a difficult journey. You have joined an excellent site and all the support are at your fingertips. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Jan

Hi,
I am so very sorry for your loss. As everyone has said, this is the most difficult thing we have had to face, but we are all in it together.
I lost my loving husband in February '09 after 37 years of marriage and his passing was very sudden, no warnings. The shock of it is still with me today, so the most I can offer is to please give yourself time.
Just know that we are all feeling your pain and we extend our friendship to you. Love & many Prayers....Mo

I am so very, deeply sorry for the loss of your beloved husband.
I wish your circumstances were 360 degrees different.
Certain everyone of us, including me can identify with your pain.
We're a very supportive group. If you can try to seek support with your family and friends too. If there's a way I can be too, feel free to let me know. For the record I lost Jerry from acute myeloid leukemia11/08. He was sick from 02/08, chemo 05/08/10/08
My heartfelt prayers are definitely with you

THIS IS THE TOUGHEST JOURNEY YOU'LL EVER TAKE, BUT KNOW THAT YOU AREN'T ALONE. GOD IS THERE, AND SO ARE WE!IF YOU NEED TO VENT, CRY, STRIKE OUT @ SOMETHING (HIT A PILLOW) DO IT! BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING RIGHT NOW IS TO TAKE CARE OF YOU. EAT, EVEN IF YOU DON'T FEEL LIKE IT. AS I SAID BEFORE, KNOW THAT YOU AREN'T ALONE, IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO I'M HERE. AS WELL AS EVERYONE ELSE ON THIS BOARD. HOPE THIS HELPS, RIP.

My deepest condolences on the loss of your beloved husband. As everyone else has mentioned, the pain you are going through is like no other. Please know that everyone on this site is here for you to lend support. It's only been two months since I lost my husband of 31 years, but I've found if I can just focus on getting through one day at a time, it is a little easier. Also, surround yourself with family and friends who will allow you to express all your emotions during this most difficult time. Don't bury what you're feeling.

God bless you....

First let me say I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband in 06 and it is still hard for me sometimes. But it does get easier. As Bill would always say in hard times, Just put it in Gods hands. God will give you the strength to carry on. Cry when you feel like it, and don't be ashamed. It hurts, but with time your wounds will heal and remember someday you will be with him again. God Bless you ...

I am so very sorry for your loss.. Having been where you are, I can only empathize with you, knowing what you have to endure.. Words seem so inadequate at a time like this... I pray that your memories of your husband will sustain you over this difficult time.. Hugs Janine

Like the others you've met here on DS I know your pain and am here to help you through it in any way I can. Like you, I lost my husband in 6/07 and it has been a 2 year I could never imagine. I like to think of it as being in a tunnel. Every day you take a few steps until you reach the other side.
I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome you to a place you can draw comfort from. Sharon

Welsome to the group. I am so sorry to hear of your loss and that you have to find yourself here. This place can be such a comfort at this life in your life. We are or have been there you are right now. We understand all of what you are feeling. There are some really great people here who will help in so many ways.

Take care of yourself you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Diane