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Marc worked for the same company for 41 years as a corporate attorney. Six months ago when he died, they mailed me 8-9 boxes of stuff from his office. Ive gradually gone through them, filing, selling (pipes and tobacco humidor for when they could smoke in office!), giving away, tossing out most. I have one box left of his old law books.
Some were written in 1947 and revised in 1974! Black's Law Dictionary, Law of Torts, AntiTrust Law Developments...They are large and heavy.
I cannot look at two items without crying. One is "Letters to a Young Lawyer and the other is his old Rolodex with typewritten cards from the 70s and 80s, with his scribbling on many. Maybe Ill put these two "triggers" in his" drawer which contains his Eagle Scout sash and patches, and diplomas.
Does anyone have any thoughts on what to do with the old law books?
I am not a pack rat and dont like to keep extra stuff that I wont use. Its time to get this last box out of the living room. Thanks for suggestions and input!
Some were written in 1947 and revised in 1974! Black's Law Dictionary, Law of Torts, AntiTrust Law Developments...They are large and heavy.
I cannot look at two items without crying. One is "Letters to a Young Lawyer and the other is his old Rolodex with typewritten cards from the 70s and 80s, with his scribbling on many. Maybe Ill put these two "triggers" in his" drawer which contains his Eagle Scout sash and patches, and diplomas.
Does anyone have any thoughts on what to do with the old law books?
I am not a pack rat and dont like to keep extra stuff that I wont use. Its time to get this last box out of the living room. Thanks for suggestions and input!
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might be helpful, as some of those old books could be worth a bit (just thinking about your other post about insurance..perhaps this would be a way to help you out a little at least)
I had to liquidate our very large library (16 bookcases full). Some I sold to friends, some to our local book dealers, some I gave away, and some went to charity thrift shops. Getting rid of our books was one of the most gut-wrenching things I had to do. It was like getting rid of close friends or something. We were both avid readers, as are both our sons, and there were oodles and boodles of memories tied up in those books. I saved a few that were too emotionally precious or which I knew to be first editions and of some value, but most went. It was heart-breaking, but I got through it.
Law books are difficult because generally speaking most of them won't have any current usage. Many law firms simply put their old books out for recycling. The Black's Law Dictionary would still be useful for someone, the others probably not, hence the suggestion as movie props.
I had the same problem with the Rolodexes - in fact, just about anything written in Cliff's handwriting was hard to part with and whittle down. His writing as well as his writing style was unique, very eccentric, very Cliff. I have kept a batch of stuff, I have a special box for things like that and other small stuff. Probably the most special are the songs and poems he wrote for me and the early love letters.
I understand how hard this process is, truly I do. Hang in there....
Love and Hugs,
Martha
As to the other stuff, like a rolodex, those are so personal and now so rare given our electronic contacts lists, that I would hold on to them for a while before deciding to part with them.
Other types of legal reference books really do become obsolete and even misleading to use or read, so unless you feel sentimental attachment, you could recycle them or donate to goodwill.
Hmmmm.
We have lots of good art hanging in the office, but one large wall over the couch inexplicably has been left blank...These old books are really beautiful, so Im now thinking of having a nice shelf built, and putting the books on the wall, as art and eye candy! Also a memorial to the old, fallen lawyer. Thats all he ever wanted to do.
When I die and the house and contents go to the kids, THEY will get to decide what to do with them. Theyll really be antiques by then (hopefully) Ha!
But then one day I felt like hanging it up, and can now look at it and not be sad, but matter-of-fact about it.
I know Ill eventually feel that way about his books on the wall.
Thanks everyone, for your input.
Thanks, Michele, for your faith in me! :-)