Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Today at 2:00 pm exactly 3 years ago I became a widower. It still doesn't feel real sometimes. I miss Donna so. We were married for 40 years together for 43. I'm in a total meltdown this morning. I slept in her ICU room the last night because I seemed to sense the end was near. It would turn out to be our last night together. Never in a million years was I prepared for what happened.
Now 3 years later I am better but will never forget our love and commitment for each other. The bond is as strong as ever. I feel her sometimes. I felt her presence his week as I was interviewing for a new job. She was my biggest cheerleader. As I go through the rest of my journey alone but watched and guided by my best friend and soul mate, I will do my best to make her proud of me as she always was and I of her.
Hearts
Two separate hearts became one
Beating together for 40 years
Through thick and thin times
Through happy and sad times
Always together, never separate
Now one remains
Still beating
Still beating for two
Jeff
Now 3 years later I am better but will never forget our love and commitment for each other. The bond is as strong as ever. I feel her sometimes. I felt her presence his week as I was interviewing for a new job. She was my biggest cheerleader. As I go through the rest of my journey alone but watched and guided by my best friend and soul mate, I will do my best to make her proud of me as she always was and I of her.
Hearts
Two separate hearts became one
Beating together for 40 years
Through thick and thin times
Through happy and sad times
Always together, never separate
Now one remains
Still beating
Still beating for two
Jeff
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Today I feel grateful. Grateful for my dog Blue (Blue Jean Baby Queen, Prettiest girl I've ever seen). Grateful I'm still kickin'. Grateful I'm finally taking responsibility for my health. Grateful I own my home. Grateful for good friends and neighbors who watch over me. Grateful to God for His everlasting love and patience with me. Grateful I survived the 10 years since my wife of 30 years...
Life will never be the same, but we still have joyful moments.
Best regards,
Sandra
My thoughts are with you,
Kathy
Good luck with the job interviews - we're rooting for you as well!!!
Love and Hugs,
Martha
Times moves on but our Love for our Soul Mate is there every second of every day !!!
Take care JoAnn
Hugs,
Janie