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Hopevt
Hopevt

I'm new to this. I lost my husband of 18 years in 1/24/17. He was in icu for 3 weeks before he passed.  We dated for 12 years before marrying so I've known him for 30 years; he was my best friend and now he's gone. I'm devastated and my heart aches for our kids because they still need their dad.  But the kids have been amazingly accepting and they give me strength everyday.  We are lucky to have great friends and family for support.  I also find much comfort thinking about all the wonderful things we've done as a family.  

Gatormom
Gatormom
Sorry for your loss. I know what you're going through as I lost my husband almost 4 weeks ago. Also know what your kids are feeling because my dad died young. You'll get through this together.
scottito
scottito
This is without a doubt the roughest thing life can and will ever throw at any of us. How do any of us get through it? Baby steps. Time. Time. And more time. We're all here to help each other. We get it. Take good care of yourself. Drink lots of water, remember to eat, and be sure to get enough sleep. Grieving is the hardest work you'll ever do. ~~~ Scottie
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