The three month mark is slowly approaching and I'm still in shock I keep expecting him to come home. I haven't really touched too much because I do still expect him to come back and I know I'm not ready to go through a lot of his things there are little things I've found in plain sight that I have set aside for his family Trent and I live in the loft above my parents garage we were waiting for me to graduate college and get a real job before we moved out. We met in high school and a week before Christmas his dad kicked him out and ever since he's lived with me. He used to be a big hunter and he brought his guns here he always told me you never tell anyone how many you have and because he didn't have a gun safe he hid them sporadically. The one he bought me ifs on my side of the bed and he had one on his side the rest he hid around in a corner with dressers blocking them under a chair I honestly don't know where they all are and I know I'll find them when I start looking for them. So this brings me to last night. I try to have a good relationship with Trent's family because I know that what he would have wanted and I have forgiven a lot on Trent's behalf for his dad what he did on the day of Trent's service was unforgiveable a lot of people said I should of been done with him that day. His dad texted me last night which isn't strange we talk usually once a week and it started off normal I told him he would be receiving a letter from a lawyer which was naming me executor of Trent's estate and that's when things turned. He asked about when he could get the stuff that he had brought up that he wanted. I read the message and I was busy painting our new store that I decided I would deal with him the next day because I wasn't in the mood for that I was exhausted from lack of sleep so I let it go. A few minutes later he sends me another message and I lost it I guess he knew just what words to say to get a reaction out of me. He said the things that Trent would want him to have. I didn't say it but I thought how does he know what Trent would want him to have I don't even know that. There is one that his dad wants and that's because its been in the family for generations and that's fine I understand he will have it as soon as I look for it. One day we talked he mentioned about the rest of his guns and how he would buy them from me I told him I didn't know and now he expects me to give them all to him. I will admit I responded and I said something I do regret saying but I felt like I needed to stand up for myself because everything he has requested besides the guns I've said yes to and I don't want him to feel that he can walk all over me. I sent him a long message basically telling him its hard for me to go through his things and that I will in my own time and I haven't been able to find the gun and I haven't exactly looked for it either but that he would have it when I found it and then I said whatever else I decide he can have he will when its time. I regret that more than anything. He sent me a message but I was just done with him for the night so I ignored it and then I got another message which I took as a threat not against me but he said that the guns were never registered in Trent's name he never had them transferred just so I know. The guns are registered in his moms name for the most part because his dad isn't allowed to own a gun or be in possession of one. I know the guns aren't going to bring him back but we used to shoot in the backyard and I think he would want me to have them. I just don't know what to do about his dad I'm not gonna lie I'm a little scared of him. Part of me wants to find the gun today and tell him to come get it but he wants Trent's boat and I can't do anything with it right now so I would have to deal with the pressure about when he can have that. I understand he's grieving but there is no need to take it out on me and its pretty bad when his other son wants nothing to do with him. I don't know I'm sorry this is so long but what are your thoughts.