Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Prayers and hugs to you Anna . . . xo
Yes, I do! It has been over four years for me, and I talk to my husband all the time. I also talk to both brothers whom I lost after my husband. I believe that they watch over me and that has helped tremendously with this grief thing. Roxanne
Love and Hugs,
Martha
I believe that "time" is a human artifice that helps us organize our activities and map our lives from beginning to end. Without personal commitments, and the realities of aging and death, time is quite irrelevant. I also think that "ufos" are often time travelers, perhaps from our own future.
Sound creates physical waves. Talking and playing music creates wave ripples that emanate ad infinitum. When I play guitar, I feel "connected." Even thoughts create electromagnetic activity, which manifests in waves/ripples as well.
I don't believe in traditional concepts of "Heaven" - I believe that our actions live on in ever spreading ripples "Across the Universe." (nod to John Lennon, whose ripples are still with us)
Given the nature of Quantum theory, "he" is with you - just in a different way. Talking, singing, thinking about him sends ripples that reach the ripples he created, which remain after his death. He no longer has a "human" mind, but we know very little about other kinds of consciousness.
Can the ripples of others affect our own lives? I do not mean necessarily in the form of another human being interacting with us, but that is one way, and there could be others. His ripples could have some effect on your life still.
Living in an intentional way mans we create the kinds of ripples we want to represent us. And the ripples never "die."
Our souls NEVER die. Oh, some are more vibrant and electric than others but then we've all people with personality and those without. Haven't you met someone who you're quite sure that you've met before.....you probably have!
When I met Morey......there were sparks and a glow and a warmth inside my heart that will NEVER go away. It was so electric.
With his amazing energy I hope he finds a wonderful life again and again!
Roz
Deb