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Beings I grew up on a cattle ranch I have had and worked with horses all my life so have many functions I have done with horses...
SO I read things like this..
It is normal for a horse to trip or stumble on occasion. Just like us we take a mistep now and than, espescially when the ground is rough or uneven. But if its a regular occurence than it needs correction.
First ruling out any phsycial problems you work on psychological which may be affecting its attitude, ability, or thought patten to complete its task you are asking. There are many exercises to begin to work on where this horse may be at.... There are no whips, no sharp words, calm, caring, strong words at times, and actions with smooth actions from the person to convey to the horse what you are asking..
There are many such training things when you have a sour horse, a kicking horse, a spoiled horse who wants his way etc.....
Moral of Story: Isn't it amazing we as humans have a hard time doing the same with others that displease us with their actions.
SO I read things like this..
It is normal for a horse to trip or stumble on occasion. Just like us we take a mistep now and than, espescially when the ground is rough or uneven. But if its a regular occurence than it needs correction.
First ruling out any phsycial problems you work on psychological which may be affecting its attitude, ability, or thought patten to complete its task you are asking. There are many exercises to begin to work on where this horse may be at.... There are no whips, no sharp words, calm, caring, strong words at times, and actions with smooth actions from the person to convey to the horse what you are asking..
There are many such training things when you have a sour horse, a kicking horse, a spoiled horse who wants his way etc.....
Moral of Story: Isn't it amazing we as humans have a hard time doing the same with others that displease us with their actions.
goldenearrings
yes................
deleted_user
Thanks for this wisdom.
deleted_user
I too grew up with horses and I love this analogy, it is so very simple and so very true :) thank U so much :)
cliffskat
It might work with horses, but what do you do with a stubborn mule? Just wondering...
marjoe
LOL!
deleted_user
Same process...more time and patience ;)
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