I went to a median a few months after my husband died, I had to know if he was ok , seems he is and he was with the medians grandmother and they were having a good time, my husband was making the median and his grandmother laugh, but that was my steve always the life of the party , even in heaven , I miss him so much :("

I have thought of seeing someone, too.
My friend did after her mother passed, and she said it was comforting. The woman knew things that no one could have known or guessed.
She also told my friend of other family members who had passed and a high school friend who died in a car accident years ago.

It's been 11 weeks and I haven't had any signs or dreams although I want so much to know he's okay.

Hi Lori,
I am sorry for your loss. I would never go to a medium or spiritualist.
I know a week or so after I lost my husband, Ben,I had a vivid dream.
It actually woke me up.
I dreamt Ben was walking down the stairs toward me, the eldest three of our 7 grandchildren were standing on the middle landing. He stopped and gave each of them a hug. Then he came toward me with his big open arms and gave me the most wonderful enveloping bear hug. I woke up at that point and felt so much peace
What made it so profound, was that Ben for almost a year until he died, could barely be touched or hugged because of side effects of his stem cell transplant for leukemia. It was devastating not being able to hug him and for him it was unbearable.
I truly believe that dream was a gift from God for both of us.
Lori, I pray that you will find that same peace soon.
Love and hugs
, Sandra.

There are conflicting opinions on mediums, but the final answer is up to you. My only advice if you decide to go would be choose one with a reputable reputation.

I enjoy watching them on television for entertainment, but feel I have a special connection with my husband still and believe his spirit remains with me already. I feel his presence with me so I have no reason to go. Sharon

This is a hard one for me. I like watching the long Island Medium, and many years ago I went to view a medium at her home. I was into that kind of thing back then, But.... now as a Christian I am not so sure about any of it. These people may get valid information from somewhere but who knows from where or how. Satan can give them information also. I don't really see why they would get this information to make us feel better or maybe just giving us false hope.
I just don't know.
Maybe one day we will know the truth about all of this.
If it helps you get through go for it, but I can't say it is really our loved one speaking.

This is always an intriguing topic. Thanks for bringing it up. I agree with JesusIsOurSavior, and too would never consult a medium. I will save you my reasoning for this.
Two days after my wife died she was seen in the house of a very close friend. She had a message to give to her, which the friend later relayed to me. What my friend said she could not have possibly known. I know for a fact that she got this information from my deceased wife, it was a good message one of hope. As of this date I had a profound dream of my dearly departed Lisa in a dream. I walked up to her in our kitchen and hugged her neck. I felt her warmth and smelled her perfume. She looked at me from the side of her face, as I said to her "Do you have any idea how much I love you?" I immediately woke up. This may be as close as I get to her this side of heaven. I admit that I'm a little jealous that Lisa visited my friend and not me. But I will live with the longing to see her again.

I have wondered about psychics for a long time. For me it would give me better closure. I had a few odd dreams shortly after she passed. Not really sure what they meant.
My late wife seemed to have an odd psychic connection to past relatives. I thought in some way she would give me some signs. Nothing yet. At least not like on tv or in the movies.
If there was someone with a good reputation I probably would go them. It was be helpfull to know things are okay. I just could use the validation.
Mark