Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Here's what we're facing with or without gun control: You can't have someone committed on your say-so. They have to do something first. They have to commit a criminal act. Otherwise they are sent home. Doesn't matter how many people they say they're going to kill. You can't use an audio recording to prove it either. Inadmissable in most cases. Illegal to do in Illinois. It's a mess.
Had a guy tell me the other day how easy it is to get an illegal gun. Just go into the city, he said. Ask anybody selling drugs on the street where to get one and it's yours. Controlling guns will only stop the good, sane people from getting a gun. We need to lock the sick away, like they did years ago, back before people walked into schools and took the lives of innocent babies.
Think about it. It all started in the 1980s. Back then they called it going postal. Coincidence? I think not.
I am extremely troubled about the media stigmatizing an entire group of people (Aspergers"s) this way. Locking them up in institutions etc! And yes, that's been advocated in the media over the past 2 days.
Children with Aspergers are FAR MORE LIKELY to be the VICTIMS of crime. Please don't judge these precious ones who through no fault of ther own were born with autism. Autism/Aspergers is an ongoing heartbreak for the family.
My daughter is in anguish over the implications to her little boy. I feel like I'm watching her be tortured over this and her sweet child did nothing wrong.
It's lonely because most people have no idea.
I know two people with Aspergers and would trust them with my life. They're wonderful intelligent people who just have problems with social interaction.