Can we find it in our Hearts to agree to disagree. We come from all walks of life, different places, different life experiences etc. But we all have one thing in common, we have all lost the most important person, our spouse/partner. We come here for comfort, understanding, support, advice and hope. I value everyones opinion because you all matter. I may not agree with your thinking, but it always spurs my mind into trying to understand. I came here when I didn't know where else to go. I was so overwhelmed with grief I didn't know where to turn. And I found comfort, love, understanding, advice and a reason to hope for better days and insight from those further along in this agonizing journey. This site has been a life line to me, but now I find we are losing a long time member. I am saddened by this, no actually I am crushed. I am now losing someone who was here from the very beginning, nearly every day and sometimes several times a day. And I cannot believe this is happening. We all may be different, but we are human, we have feelings and we have hearts. Every one here matters! We may never actually meet in person, but that doesn't matter because we all have something to share. We are walking and crawling this journey together. We give advice, receive advice and find comfort in each others thoughts and suggestions. But most of all we find hope that we will find our way to happiness and truly living again. Please everyone, do not allow this to happen. Let's make everyone and every day matter. Hugs and Love, Michele. P.S. Dayna, I will be forever grateful and honored to have you by my side.