Widows & Widowers Support Group
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I had a relative who adopted a rescue dog, and there were numerous restrictions placed on the family as far as care and how often they could leave the dog. I don't know if that's the case with all rescue animals, but it certainly made a difference in the amount of freedom they had, especially at first. TJ
We live not far from a major shelter that regularly rescues animals from floods, hurricanes (big Katrina rescue), other countries (Mexico and the Carribean) and puppy mills. Many of the animals that they have for adoption are pure breeds. Last year, my husband and I rescued a breeder mom. She's a beautiful full breed golden retriever. She has MANY issues. She still is extremely fearful of everything. It has been fun teaching her to "be a dog" over the last year. She had to learn to walk on a leash. She's still learning that strangers will not harm her. Our other dogs are teaching her to play. She learned that the treats are stored in the Mancave. I think she regressed during the weeks I spent at the hospital, but she's very slowly coming around again.
Getting a rescue dog has been a challenge and a blessing. I would encourage you to consider a rescue before buying from a pet store.
Have you decided what type of puppy you would like? I spent months working out waht breed I wanted before getting my new puppy almost 0 weeks ago. I bought him from a registered breeder that was strongly recommended by several people. I was actually on a wait list with another breeder - but unfortunately that dog miscarried and she was kind enough to refer me on to another breeder- from whom she was buying a puppy herself.
For me it was wonderful - and I really enjoyed visiting the puppy multiple times in the breeders home to get to know him and spend time with each of his parents. It was a wonderful experience to see my puppy as young as 11 days and to see him grow and to get to know him a little before bringing him home.
As Beasley said, if you have concerns about visiting a strangers home - perhaps you can take a friend with you. That way - if you choose a reputable breeder - you can be assured of a healthy well socialised little dog. I am not saying that there are problems with all dogs from pet stores - as I am sure that you can be lucky and get a wonderful companion from them ...perhaps though the risks are greater.
I love dogs - and this last two years has been the first time in my life without one. I have to say that this new little fella is a joy in my life and gives me a reason to get up each morning. Good luck with finding a new little friend - they are hard work as puppies but are well worth it.
I realised soon after getting this little boy that it is the first time in my life that I have raised and trained a puppy all by myself.......
Debbie
Debbie
I ended up choosing a West Highland Terrier - and he is a delight - although true to his breed he is stubborn and can be very wilful. I knew that when I chose the breed and am enjoying training him - and moulding his personality ever so gently. Not really looking forward to the "teenage " years but know with consistency and heaps of positive reinforcement he will continue to be a delight.
Good luck with your decision making
Debbie
I had large gap in time between getting this puppy and loss of my previous dog - but only because circumstances stopped me getting a puppy. Prior to my previous dog I waited less than a month before getting a new puppy. It certainly wasn't replacing my old Goldie - I deliverately bought a different breed and different gender even. It was just lovely to have the joy that a puppy brings.
Good luck with it all - sorry about my stuff up.
Debbie