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myloveforever
myloveforever
WOW !! I just read my last post. Word to the wise. If you are going to sit at your bar, listen to oldie music, look at pictures, reminisce, and feel sorry for yourself, DON'T TOUCH THE COMPUTER !!!. Now I know why my girl told me I talked too much when I had a few. I'm not normally that open with people, but knowing we're all in the same boat makes me very comfortable I'll shut up now.
AfterMom
AfterMom
hey, I don't even need to "have a few" before I post as a sobbing mess here. That's what this place is for. I did not mean that you were a sobbing mess, Only that I often am.
Welcome. We all feel lost, & that's usually why we start a topic.
carrie415
carrie415
No Need to explain anything to usIt is how you truly feel and we (I) got you. It is exhausting, shocking, heartbreaking, it just plain sucks. We never ever imagined it would be this way.Hang in,,,
Community LeaderShrn
Shrn
Letting go of your feelings is allowed here so don't worry. We've all (mostly ) done it from time to time. So sorry for your loss and welcome to the group no one wants to join. Sharon
scottito
scottito
If more men would be open and honest about their feelings, odds are pretty good we'd have had world peace by now. Seriously, Its okay to hurt and cry. Really. Everyone here gets it. No worries ~~ Scottie
loveddogs
loveddogs
you need to get those feelings out because stuffing them inside only allows everything to build up. In my opinion anyway. We have all felt what you feel. Welcome to a sight that gives you the freedom to share! This road is rough and rocky, but together I think, I hope we will all make it. Hugs and Love, Michele
tableforone
tableforone
Scottie's right, guys should let their feelings out much more often. Don't ever be concerned about getting them out in the open. You're among friends here, friends that understand and care about you. Letting your feelings out is freeing. It lightens your load and helps you find your way thru this dark place that all of us here know too well. It's no place to live so keep talking and you'll begin to see the path ahead. One step at a time Joe. We're on your side.
~John
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