Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
Life is an amazing journey
Hold fast to the good and let go of the bad
Smile more and worry less
Breathe deeply and be grateful you are alive.
Life has been an amazing journey -----
Typical human I do hang onto the bad too long...
I do try to smile more it is getting easier
BUT worry less...I used to have someone who took 1/2 of that from me...
SO I am not breathing deeply and am grateful I am alive with lots of wishes and prayers for a better happier tomorrow...
Less lonely and less worrisome..
Have a great week
Hold fast to the good and let go of the bad
Smile more and worry less
Breathe deeply and be grateful you are alive.
Life has been an amazing journey -----
Typical human I do hang onto the bad too long...
I do try to smile more it is getting easier
BUT worry less...I used to have someone who took 1/2 of that from me...
SO I am not breathing deeply and am grateful I am alive with lots of wishes and prayers for a better happier tomorrow...
Less lonely and less worrisome..
Have a great week
HUGS
Its more likened to.
Emptiness caused be absence in principle is an opportunity to receive the newness or re-birthing of LIFE. IN essence, LIFE is never birthed from a place of emptiness. A seed is required for all new growth and LIFE.
Or it could be said
To empty oneself simply allows one to be filled with the Light of Life in a fuller expression. Thus absence in and of itself can do no harm. It is how one perceives absence that creates a sense of irreparable harm....AND in all actuality perceptions can only be formed by oneself.
Merely a few of my abstract thoughts...
The blessings of peace that passes all understanding to you!
Genuinely,
BEAR
It's anger-its the doctor's fault, it's God's fault, it's my fault or his/her fault.
Bargaining-Before the end we are willing to do anything not to admit the inevitable.
Depression-when we feel we can not possibley live without them. The pain is overwhelming. It's not mental illness, it's emotional loss.
And finally acceptance-that you realize it has happened to me, but as sad as I am there islife in my blood and I can move on. I deserve happiness and my spouse would definately want that for me. That to not move past this tragedy is worse than putting one foot infront of the other and being a loving caring friend to someone who is in a worse condition than you. Sharon