Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
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Carol
I recently rescued a kitten who is now part of our clan. That all began with a dream in which I received a text message from Heaven (wasn't at all strange to dream me). The text told me to go the automotive counter at Wal-mart because my husband had left something there for me. It was a scraggly Siamese kitten. So, a few weeks later when a neighbor in tears brings this little sick, half hairless Siamese kitten to my door asking if I can help, I couldn't say no. About $100 in vet bills and lots of TLC later, his hair is growing back, he has lost that alien creature look, and is going to be beautiful.
The two of them have very similar personalities. Walk slowly. Rest often and quietly. Growl/ complain, when Chloe and I interrupt their peace and quiet. She would bark like crazy when he pulled into the driveway. Would run around in circles waiting for him to come through the door. She misses him terribly. I've taken her to the cemetery and she actually laid herself down right on his grave, almost exactly where his lap would have been. Her favorite spot in the house, his lap.
Then there are the 2 golden retrievers. Chloe was supposed to be my kids' dog when we bought the house (no dogs were allowed in our apartment building). Suffice to say, she's mine. She's territorial aggressive. She doesn't let anyone or anything near me on walks. I can walk her at midnight and feel safe.
Chelsea is our rescue. She was a breeder that was rescued from a puppy mill. Scared of her own shadow. Today, I taught her that she could swim.
The cat is my brother's. We've been "catsitting " her for 15 years. My brother and wife asked us to keep her for a few weeks before the birth of their "baby." The "baby" is now 16.
I really wish I could have a dog, though. They're great companions.
I've not seen the cat since.
Dave
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My son has a kitten he loves dearly too. We also have outside a guard duck , a rabbit and horses.
Cie
I inherited an abandoned pitt bull. He is a good boy but just cant seem to gain hierarchy over my 18 lb cat. It gets entertaining here or I just really need to get a life...lol. Naw, I love 'em all.