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Aside from that, as you know an animal is a great companion. You'll be helping both yourself and the dog. As you said, there are many people with schedules like your who have pets.
Hugs,
Ron
Seriously now - how did your other dog cope while you were gone? I'm assuming you had the same work schedule while he was still with you, so use that as a yardstick.
Having a dog walker sounds like a positive step, and you'd be coming home to him after work every day, and have all of your downtime to spend with him as well.
You said it would take some time to find one, so it sounds like you're not on the rebound. If you're in no hurry, then I think you'll have plenty of time to sort things out and make the right decision.
Meanwhile, pass the sunflower seeds :)
As long as there's food and water my three are as happy as can be. And, you don't have to walk them.
Janet
First, I chose a cat because I work full time. Would have rather had a dog, but it would be home alone all day, and in the evening if I went out. I didn't think that was fair to the dog, for they demand more attention than a cat does.
Then there was the walking issue. In our development we have to curb our dog. That's not the problem, but going out in all the weather elements, plus any time of the day or night. I would also need to come home at lunch every day. Since I work about 20 minutes from home, it wouldn't leave me much time to spend with Fifi.
It's not really so much what I think, but what you believe you can give to the animal. How much attention will you be able to devote to it? Will it be alone more than it is with you? Absentee owners can't devote the time needed to train either.
It needs some real thinking here, and I'm sure you will make the right decision.
Right now I live with my father, but that's only for a year. And I can't depend on it lasting that long.
I'm a vet, so I'm not sure I can offer an impartial decision on this one :-) I do think this could be a real win-win if you could find a pet that needed you, too. My pit bull was a rescue that I found on the internet and picked up in Kansas City. They are outlawed there, so he would have been put down if not fostered or adopted. He has been one of my favorite pets ever and I can't imagine not having that companionship. I'd suggest you visit the local shelter and see if you connect with one of the pets there. I'm a firm believer in the idea that our pets find US, not necessarily the other way around. I appreciate your concern about work hours, but most dogs sleep most of the day anyway and better to do that in a loving home than in a run in a shelter. Just don't be in a hurry to adopt the first dog you see---you'll be making a commitment for over a decade in all likelihood, so take the time you need to make sure it's the right match. Keep us posted!
CJ