Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
My "S" is a woman and she is like a man when it comes to sex. Not a loving & caring man, mind you, but a player. And she can go months & months without sex, but then when she feels the need for sex it's not a need she is looking to be satisfied by the loving & caring man who gives her everything she needs for her & her children, but rather 3:00 AM sex with the meanest bad-ass she can find...a dangerous character...bad boy.
Just wondering, has any one else noticed this about their "S"? I am sure it applies to the male Sociopaths out there too. That they are not looking for loving & caring sex (except to manipulate someone), but their real desire is for sex with some dangerous liason, somone who is not a loving & caring person, but more animalistic and even abusive, like themselves.
I assume most of us here got hurt partly because of the strong emotional bond we feel when we have sex with someone, and of course our "S" feels none of that.
Saw an interesting post on LoveFraud about sex and the female Sociopath:
"....men experience bonding just like normal women-especially when the sex is good. The sex with a female sociopath (I’m told) isn’t just good, it’s better than most mortal men have ever hoped for. Once hooked on the female sociopath, men become victims just as much as the women who become hooked on the male sociopath. Many male victims feel ashamed and emasculated. But, take heart guys, she actually preyed on the more masculine side of your nature, your enjoyment of sex! Why are successful female sociopaths so sexual and so sexually appealing? Science does have some answers for us here. Testosterone which is elevated in many male sociopaths is also elevated in female sociopaths. Studies of non-disordered women indicate that higher testosterone levels are associated with increased sex drive, increased sexual activity and YES sexual attractiveness to men! High testosterone makes both male and female sociopaths sexually appealing. Testosterone may also be related to the lack of parenting behavior seen in sociopathic women. Women with higher testosterone have been found to be less interested in motherhood."
Just wondering, has any one else noticed this about their "S"? I am sure it applies to the male Sociopaths out there too. That they are not looking for loving & caring sex (except to manipulate someone), but their real desire is for sex with some dangerous liason, somone who is not a loving & caring person, but more animalistic and even abusive, like themselves.
I assume most of us here got hurt partly because of the strong emotional bond we feel when we have sex with someone, and of course our "S" feels none of that.
Saw an interesting post on LoveFraud about sex and the female Sociopath:
"....men experience bonding just like normal women-especially when the sex is good. The sex with a female sociopath (I’m told) isn’t just good, it’s better than most mortal men have ever hoped for. Once hooked on the female sociopath, men become victims just as much as the women who become hooked on the male sociopath. Many male victims feel ashamed and emasculated. But, take heart guys, she actually preyed on the more masculine side of your nature, your enjoyment of sex! Why are successful female sociopaths so sexual and so sexually appealing? Science does have some answers for us here. Testosterone which is elevated in many male sociopaths is also elevated in female sociopaths. Studies of non-disordered women indicate that higher testosterone levels are associated with increased sex drive, increased sexual activity and YES sexual attractiveness to men! High testosterone makes both male and female sociopaths sexually appealing. Testosterone may also be related to the lack of parenting behavior seen in sociopathic women. Women with higher testosterone have been found to be less interested in motherhood."
Labyrinth of the Psychopath 9 - Straight Women and "Homosexual" Partners
Interesting aspect.....
And mine too, was in love with himself - he would video himself masturbating. Really?! Really. Who does that? Oh, and he admitted that he masturbated at least daily, some times multiple times a day... he would even do it at work, sitting at his desk..... I didn't know this til the end.... these things would have creeped me out if I'd known them the whole time.....