Victims of Psychopaths Community Group

Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.

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Please....RUN IF YOU CAN!!

Nutellina
Nutellina
To all those ones in this site they are having a relationship with a P but don't have kids. Please, run before it's too late. Read the stories of all our friends here that have children with a P and how they are fighting and how their life is complicated. For you all that have kids you have all my love and support and prayers. To those ones that can save their future.....please run......because it will get worst if you go on.!
Much love to everyone!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Amen to that.
escapefor1
escapefor1
Seriously. A baby will not fix things. A baby can be the hook they get to keep you there. If you ever leave, at best, you will be tied to them until your last child is 18 on a day-to-day basis, and on and off forever. At worst, your child may get their genetics and then you're parenting a P too.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Yes many try make you pregnant so you wont leave. Its one of their tools.
deleted_user
deleted_user
So, so true. I have lost my granddaughter because I had a narcissistic daughter from a psychopath! Worst case scenario!
Timely warning for some, Nutellina
deleted_user
deleted_user
Forgotten, the point isnt that they try to make you pregnant. Its that you should take the advice from others who have suffered through having children with these men and LEAVE before it gets to that point.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am aware of what the thread meant, emysty. I was agreeing with escape, that they can try make you pregnant as to keep you there...and therefore of course be aware of that so not to have kinds with them.
deleted_user
deleted_user
kids with them
deleted_user
deleted_user
escape says "A baby can be the hook they get to keep you there."

Does that mean she is saying that if they get you pregnant they do this to hook you, to keep you there?
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh good, sometimes I worry about you. In a good way :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Doesnt that mean she is saying that if they get you pregnant they do this to hook you, to keep you there?
deleted_user
deleted_user
ok..lol..good we understand each other now :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
(and escape didn't say that will try to get you pregnant, she said once you become pregnant you are tied to them for 18 years minimum)....
deleted_user
deleted_user
yes I know she didnt say that...sometimes I get mixed in my thinking process...but sometimes they do try make you pregnant too as to keep you there.
deleted_user
deleted_user
My ex's socio girlfriend was pregnant within a year after they got together. Not only can't I escape the situation because my ex and I have a son, BUT now that he and her have a son shes in his life now too indefinitely. She uses the baby as ammo "if you don't do this or that I am leaving with the baby" is what she has told him in the past. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE is the best advice anyone can give for those of you that don't have child ties SERIOUSLY.
deleted_user
deleted_user
There are not words to describe how much pain my three boys have suffered due to my addition to my ex s for 20 years. My youngest boy has paid the most. It makes so very sad to know I made them a part of this sickness.