Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
He keeps calling me , text me, leaving messages. He keeps saying he needs to talk to me. Honestly it's kinda scary. I never picked up. I don't want to talk to him. I found 15 calls in the last two hours.
Mine used to do the same thing: call, call, call.... if I didn't answer, he'd show up at my door - and that's even AFTER I got a court order restraining him from doing so.
Restraining orders don't work with people who are already rule-breakers and push their limits.
Just inform your neighbors and ask them to call the police if they see him again.
Definitely report it. It's amazing you stayed so strong and didn't give in! Great job. :-)
I notice in fact that my ex more he could go against law and other society rules , happier he was. I never got that. One time he was driving and there were an ambulance behind us.....he kinda staid in the middle of the street and as soon as the ambulance passed us, he start driving behind it. Red light!!!!! With MY car!!!
I don't think I'm strong, but I'm very relying to all your experiences and I really don't want to go on suffering for love still. I gave too much. I'm sick to suffer. Of course the tendency to open the door and listen to love lectures and apologies but.......he lied so much in the past. Can't trust anymore.
I have friends who are still caving to their exes' harassment and demands. I know it may not feel like it but you're really doing great and I'm not just saying that to be nice.
This is setting your boundaries. This is one of the hardest steps and some people just never learn how to do it.
Keep it up and you'll get over your loss faster than most. Really remarkable.
Truth was I was scared of him. He was so crazy. I never knew what he would do next. My life was falling apart so fast.I couldn't take anymore.
You can never be with him Nutellina, as you will never trust him, and if you took him back he WILL do the same again, only next time he will be worse. You are doing great. He will try to wear you down. Break you down. He might even believe his own lies. But try to focus on you. You are doing so well.
He may be done like that . Today he didn't call or text yet. Maybe he gave up.
or at least that is the way that my sociopath is. Right now he is silent, I hope he stays that way :) They NEVER give up.... not whilst there is a chance that they might have some control over you. Stay strong though you are doing brilliantly!! :)